Her Highness of Cute

Jason Wu for Target

2012-02-08T11:29:00.000-05:00

UPDATED!!!!

On Sunday, a friend of mine and I woke up bright and early and were at Target before it opened at 8:00a.m. We were able to purchase most of what we wanted from the Jason Wu for Target collection. The only thing I wasn't able to get was the cat tote, but my friend woke up at 1:00a.m. that morning and ordered me one online! Good thing too, because the store only had two and they were snatched before I could even blink!

I bought myself three dresses, the cat tee shirt and a beautiful light blue blouse. I also purchased two handbags and another cat tee shirt. I've listed them on eBay, but I wanted to share the sales with my readers too! If you see something you want, but don't want to bid, email me and make an offer! I'd be happy to sell these items to someone who I know through blogging who didn't get a chance to make it to Target in time. These designer sales are getting crazy!

Links:
Cat Tee Shirt, size medium: Cat Shirt

Straw and Canvas Clutch

Blue Floral Handbag

Here's what I bought for myself:

Unfortunately this striped dress is a medium and too big. I'm not sure what I was thinking when I tried it on. :( Oh well, I've added it to eBay also. let me know if you'd like to make an offer on this one....

I can't wait for the tote to arrive! I wish I'd been able to buy another as a birthday gift for my sister in law. I think she'd have loved it! Oh well...when fashion is affordable you've got to take what you can get!

Another Day, Another Wedding

2012-02-04T15:08:00.000-05:00

I remember being told that there would come a time in my life when it would feel like "everyone I know" would be getting married. Soon to be followed by the time when "everyone I know" would be having a baby. Though everyone isn't getting married all at once (I have a friend who attended nine wedding in 2009 and was a bridesmaid in five of them!), we have attended our fair share of weddings over the last couple years. I got married 10.24.09, was a bridesmaid in my college roommate's wedding last year, 10.22.11, and we will both be bridesmaids in our other roommate's wedding this October, 10.20.12! I love that we'll have anniversaries so close to one another. Certainly making for fun possible celebratory visits and vacations!

We are, once again, in full wedding excitement, and nailing down details including BQ's bachelorette party in Chicago this Summer. I'm not super into bachelorette parties, but I make the best of them, and once I'm there, I always have a fun time.

BQ has a great sense of humor. We pretty much worshipped Mean Girls in college and religiously quoted the movie to one another. "Boo, you whore" took on a life of it's own in our house.

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I think this sums it all up....

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Anyway, I'm thinking of buying this glass for BQ's party....

I think it's pretty hilarious and probably something that'll make her laugh her you know what off! What are you're thoughts? Hmmm, I wonder if there is a "Boo, You whore" glass available???

Valentine's Day

2012-01-30T18:03:00.000-05:00

I sort of skipped over Christmas this year. We celebrated, of course, both at home in Michigan, and also while I was in Naples with my family. However, I was out of town most of December, so I didn't decorate (not even a tree or wreath in sight!), didn't wrap the gifts for my husband, didn't even bake. I'm terrible, I know. I've been a little more into Valentine's Day this year, and I think it's probably due to the fact that I virtually skipped out on Christmas. I did send cards, though a few I'd addressed and not mailed fell under the seat of my car, and were sent late. Major fail.

Pinterest is such a great source for so many different things (photos of other people's kids, however, do not belong on there and it's getting on my nerves....another post entirely), including really fun Valentine's Day printables and recipes!

This is my favorite downloadable card, I even bought a little tool to curve the edges...I'm out of control...lol.

Source: eatdrinkchic.com via Sarah on Pinterest

This is my other favorite, because my mom used to sing this song to my sister and me when we were growing up.

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Who doesn't love chocolate covered pretzels?

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This idea would also work on brownies....which you could cut out with a heart shaped cookie cutter....

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I think these are pretty impressive. I love making these cookies for Christmas, so why not now too?

Source: bettycrocker.com via Sarah on Pinterest

I hope to make some Valentine's Day cards to send to my close friends and family, and I'd also love to make a few special treats too! Let's just hope I can find the time!My husband and I don't spend a lot of money for Valentine's Day. We just try to do something small and thoughtful. He bought me a Groupon for car washes this year, and I couldn't be happier! I almost bought it for myself, then I got the email he had purchased it. Great minds, right? I put together a nice first aid kit for him. He travels for work and cut himself last weekend. I felt so badly for him, especially because he had to hunt down a band aid! Now he has a whole kit with every possible thing he might need in the future. Practical gifts are often the best, I say!How do you and your loved ones celebrate? Will you be spoiled?

2012 North American International Autoshow

2012-01-14T13:32:00.002-05:00

I had the privilege to work for Audi as a hostess last week at the 2012 North American International Auto Show (NAIAS). What is a hostess you might ask? Oh, well, basically all that meant was I had my hair and makeup professionally done and stood in front of beautiful cars all day posing for the international press. In high heels. But I won't complain about the high heels, because I made many great connections, and gained much exposure. Not to mention I was paid, and not many jobs pay as well as the auto show.

Here are some pictures I've found online and in the Detroit News!

In front of an Audi S7.

Again with the S7. This car isn't even available to the public yet!

With the new S4. A beauty, let me tell you!

With the S4.

With an Audi R8GT.

With the S4. Kinda loved this car the most.....

Candid.

With the S7.

I was also on the news in Grand Rapids Michigan. Here's the link! I think I'm around 39 seconds.

I had so much fun, and I achieved a lifelong dream. I've wanted to model in the auto show since I was a kid and my aunt worked the circuit with Buick. I have to say, I'm proud of myself. :)

Happy Birthday Mom!

2012-01-05T13:44:00.000-05:00

My mother celebrated her ~~60th~~ 45th birthday on December 31st. She requested I make brunch for the celebration, and stipulated I use my fine china, crystal and flatware......When I asked what she'd like to be eating on the china plates, she replied she didn't care as long as I served the meal on the china. I was tempted to order a pizza. Just kidding! I was thrilled to be able to use my wedding gifts and the china my grandmother passed down to me. My grandmother passed away in February, and I really felt using the china to celebrate her first born child's birthday was a lovely way for her presence to be there. When I set the table, and lit the candles, I really felt her there, as she was an amazing hostess and cook. I think she would have loved to see me taking my turn as hostess!
I made a challah strata, melon wrapped with prosciutto, and crab stuffed mushrooms. My grandmother always made stuffed mushrooms on holidays. I kinda just made the recipe up for mine, and I think she used sausage for hers. I want to make them with sausage next time for a change.

My sister and I made a book for our mom's birthday gift. All her friends submitted stories and memories. Some made poems and gave us old photos. My sister designed the whole thing on shutterfly. My mom was really touched, and I'm so glad.

My sister leaves to head back to China this afternoon. I cried the whole way home from her goodbye dinner last night. I miss her terribly, but I know she is so happy and having the adventure of a lifetime there! I can't expect her to stay here when the world is calling her name! It was great having three weeks together. Now I'll have to start saving so I can visit her in Shanghai!

The EveryGirl's Guide to Life

2012-01-04T12:37:00.000-05:00

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I read this book a couple months ago, and I really enjoyed it! I decided to wait to share it with all of you, because January is a great time to read a book like this. I'm not really into making New Year's Resolutions, however, I do take inventory. Typically, I take inventory on my birthday in November, then I check in with myself (that sounds funny....) in January to see how I'm doing.

Whether you make resolutions or not, and regardless of when you "take inventory" of you life, I highly recommend this book anytime if the year! First and foremost, Maria Menounos is really down to earth and has organized this book very well. She gives tips on everything from finances to home decor to exercise. Some chapters were more helpful for me personally than others, but I read the book cover to cover and learned helpful tools in each chapter.

I most enjoyed the chapters on skincare, makeup and hair. Maria shares her personal secrets, secrets she's learned from professional makeup artists and celebs, and offers products at several price points. This book introduced me to vitamin E cream, and I now use it every night.

She also talks about her journey with diet and exercise. I love working out and try to eat a healthy diet, so I figure, I can always learn more. If you're just setting out on a fitness plan, you will really benefit from this part of the book.

Some of the career advice Maria offers is simply priceless. Some of it is common sense, but often we need a reminder. She worked at Dunkin Dounuts in High School and used what could have been a very "breezy" job and turned it into an opportunity to build skills she still uses. Sometimes it's really easy to blow things off or have a bad attitude, but always doing your best really does pay off! it sure did for Maria!

I checked this book out from the library, and later purchased it for myself. Much like cookbooks, not all self improvement books are worth buying, so I always see if the library has them first. This book was definitely worth the cover price!

You can order the book by clicking on the "photo credit" link. Also, Maria Menounos has a great twitter: @mariamenounos.

Obsessed

2011-12-26T12:01:00.000-05:00

Lana del Rey had a song featured on Gossip Girl recently. I literally become quite obsessed. Her album comes out January 31 and I can't wait! I haven't purchased a cd in years, but this one I need to own.
These are my favorite songs. Isn't she great?? I think she'll be a big star. She has a sultry sound and is stunningly beautiful. I hope you like her too.

My Favorite Christmas Movie

2011-12-21T11:56:00.002-05:00

Queen Bee posted an article with 12 things you don't know about Home Alone. Check it out here. Home Alone is one of my favorite Christmas movies. My other favorite is Christmas Vacation. I'm a child of the 90s thankyouverymuch! Plus, I had such a major crush on Macaulay Culkin.Here is the trailer and my favorite clip from Home Alone. I love this version of White Christmas.
Christmas Vacation.
This makes me laugh harder than anything else on the planet....
The hap hap happiest!!!!Merry Christmas dolls!!! Hope this put a smile on your face. :)

Over a month

2011-12-19T18:04:00.001-05:00

I can't believe I haven't posted in over a month! I've probably lost all my readers. If there is anyone out there, I'm so sorry! Life's been busy....

November 18, I turned 29. I'm not setting any really big goals for the year, but I will read all of Jane Austen's novels before I turn 30. I've also decided I am going to start being 5 minutes early, rather than rushing all the time. I'm hoping I can just make the second goal a habit.

Thanksgiving was uneventful, but lovely. I did 80% of my Christmas shopping on Black Friday and the rest online. We also saw the Twilight movie on Black Friday. I don't know why, but even though I find most everything associated with that series really annoying, I'm committed to it now and I must see it through. If only I had such follow through with dieting, or learning a second language....

December 3-10, we were in Cancun Mexico. I needed to get all my shopping done before this trip, because after I came home, I've only had two days off before I head to Naples on Thursday.Work has been busy and so has life, so I've neglected my blog.

Cancun was really lovely. The weather was perfect. My husband and I enjoyed two massages and lots of alone time, which was just what we needed. Sometimes it's so great to just tun out the world and be alone with each other.While in Mexico, I received the news that I was selected to work the two "press days" for the North American International Auto Show (NAIAS), which is help in Detroit, next month. I'll be working for Audi as a hostess. I'm very thrilled, and I have my fingers crossed that this will lead to other auto show accounts in my future. I'll keep you posted.

Here are some photos from our trip!

View from our room. We upgraded to the concierge level and it was well worth it.

Swing bar! How fun!

This was when we took the resort bus to the Sun Palace, our resort's sister hotel. The marines showed up! There was a small pod like vessel on the beach. I, of course, saw it, and stepped right over it on my way to join B for a swim. An hour later the Marines were there with AKs and a drug dog.

It was full of pot. I joked that I missed a huge business opportunity. ;)

Rocking my cute jumpsuit before dinner our last night.

After a beach party.

At the Beach Palace, another sister resort. My Kate Spade hat was the star of this picture.

We took this at the rooftop bar at the Beach Palace.

More rooftop....

Ok, so you know that SNL skit with the "double toilet"??? These chairs where everywhere at our resort. We had to use the timer on my camera so we could get this cheesy picture!

White Sunglasses At Last!

2011-11-16T10:44:00.009-05:00

I've been searching for the perfect pair of white sunglasses for ages! I really liked these, then became obsessed with that amazing Prada design, which was also available in white. Luckily I purchased neither because last weekend I purchased this pair for just over $100:

They are everything I love in a pair of sunglasses, large, sturdy, not too dark, and made by Gucci. Gucci sunglasses seem to fit my face very well, and while I often try on other brands, I've only ever purchased Gucci.

I've always loved the below image of JBKO reading on a sailboat wearing white sunglasses. I think white frames are a bit unexpected, yet timeless. I think the pair I bought are classic and fresh at the same time. They are more modern than the Kate Spade pair I almost bought, so i feel like I can wear them everywhere and often.

I think I also love that picture because she is reading a book written about her husband. A very Jackie thing to do.

4s

2011-11-15T18:25:00.004-05:00

I'm extremely happy to report that my new iPhone 4s arrived last week. I was really looking forward to getting the newest iPhone- looking forward to the better camera and Siri, and finally having a white phone. But MOST of all, I was looking forward to returning to the Verizon network. AT&T simply doesn't work where I live. All the apps took ages to load and frequently froze. Now, I'm back with Verizon and loving life once again! Siri means nothing if I can't answer a phone call while sitting on my couch. My husband and I would actually have to run upstairs to the front bedroom anytime we wanted to make or answer a phone call! Several times I'd try calling and texting him, only to find out that he never received a call and the texts would arrive hours after I sent them. I actually stopped at home once just to tell him I was going to my friend's house to help her with something, because I couldn't get him on the phone!

It really bothered me because we were paying the same price for service that didn't work. AT&T has towers in the area, but they're not equipped to deal with the number of iPhones and smartphones in the area. Wtf? If everyone ran their businesses like that, they'd all be out of business! Funny thing, when I would travel the phone would be great. Just not in my hometown where I spend most of my time. ;)

So back to the promised land, Verizon, we return, and I couldn't be happier! I think I'm going to buy the protection plan this time. I also think I found the perfect case:My favorite book, after all....

What other accessories should I buy to make sure this thing lasts??

Makeup

2011-11-07T12:22:00.000-05:00

I don't consider myself a fashion or beauty expert, but I do know a thing or two. :) Since I've spent my life in tutus and ballet slippers, by the time I was about 12, I started doing my own makeup for ballet performances and competitions. I think my mom was happy I wanted to do my own makeup because she also had to help my sister. I didn't start wearing makeup outside of ballet and Halloween, though, until I was about 16. Since then I've learned a lot, and recently, I've started really investing more time and money into it.

I find that makeup brushes are key to a flawless application and also a flawless look. I own many makeup brushes from several companies. MAC brushes are my favorite. They're rather expensive, but if you treat them right, they'll last a long time. Several of the brushes I own, I bought ten years ago, and they're like new. I've also heard that Chanel brushes (I don't own any myself) are amazing and will last a lifetime.

Recently, with modeling and weddings, I've had my makeup done quite a few times. I always ask lots of questions about products, techniques and application. I figure, this is their job, so they obviously know tricks I do not. One makeup artist told me her Chanel brushes are 10+ years old and just wonderful. Another told me about E.L.F. brushes, which are very inexpensive (I mean very), and great! I came across the line at Target, and bought several of the "Studio" brushes, and you know what? They're awesome! I've washed them once, and they held up really well.

The Powder Brush is my favorite. I use it to apply my liquid MAC foundation and also my MAC Studiofix if I want heavier coverage. Studiofix is great because if you use a large powder brush with softer bristles, it goes on lighter. In the Summer I need very little, so I use a powder brush from MAC.

Back to the E.L.F. brush. When you use it with liquid foundation, you need to blend well, and you'll get a beautiful, dewy, look. I also have the Complexion Brush and the Contour Brush. I have two similar brushes to contour from MAC. They pick up more product, which is probably ideal, but often, I want less product, so this brush is good. The bristles are a little softer.

I wash the brushes two or three times a month with mild shampoo, and let them dry on the bathroom counter. After each use, I spray them with a solution of 1/4 91% alcohol and 3/4 water. I bought a tiny spray bottle at Target. Then I wipe the brush on a paper towel. There are several brush cleaning products on the market and also various recipes to make your own. I figured it was less expensive to make my own, and water and alcohol seems to be the simplest at home recipe. I looked at the ingredients of some of the products available, and the main ingredients are water and alcohol- Go Figure!

I would definitely recommend E.L.F. brushes, because at the price, if you only get one year out of them, who cares? However, if you'd like to make a more substantial investment, head over to MAC. Ask the sales associate to suggest a couple staples and then build from there. Also, keep in mind with the Holidays approaching, you could always ask for some brushes as gifts. MAC does wonderful sets around the Holidays, which have all the staple brushes at a great discount. The only difference is that they brush handles are sometimes shorter or of a different material. The bristles and construction are the same. Why not treat yourself this year?

Sock Bun

2011-10-28T09:54:00.000-04:00

My sister sent me this video. Apparently, this is kinda big in China, where she lives. I'm not sure if I'm the last person to hear about this, or if you'll be thanking me because it new to you too! Either way, I'm excited to give it a try! I just need to find the right sock color....

Isn't this girl darling? She posted a variety of videos. This one shows how you can use the same method to curl your hair overnight. I used to always sleep in my French braid as a kid so my hair would be crimpy the next morning. This is even better!

I think I'm going to try this with an old pair of nylons or a knee high. I think the color will be best for a blonde like me. Let me know if you give it a try! I feel like this is an easy way to get an elegant look and then wake up with curls! Perfect!

Wedding fun!

2011-10-27T14:49:00.000-04:00

We spent last weekend in Grand Rapids, Michigan, one of my favorite places, to celebrate the wedding of my college roommate and her, now husband, who I went to H.S. with!

The Rehearsal Dinner was Friday night at Cygnus 27, located on the 27th floor of the Amway Grand Hotel. Her Bridal Shower was also here, and it is such a beautiful restaurant.

Here B and I are goofing around at the actual rehearsal....
The bride is in the blush pink dress. Her sister is in black. The bride, B and I all lived together in college. Some of the best memories ever...

I wore my navy Elizabeth McKay B&B dress, finally! I bought it last Spring for this event. I had to have it altered, and now it fits like a glove! I can't wait to wear it again.

The wedding was held on Saturday at the Grand Rapids Art Museum. The museum made for the perfect backdrop for her wedding. It's very chic and modern, which is exactly her taste. The food was good, the cake (made of cake balls!!!) amazing, and we had a blast dancing the night away.

My bra felt the need to make an appearance by the end of the evening... Honestly, that dress kinda started to stretch out by the end of the night. We started getting a little goofy when we couldn't get her attention for a picture...My husband caught lots of candids, and I have to admit, I make some strange faces! I guess i really do wear my heart on my sleeve, and I'm just animated, I guess.

After the reception, we went to another bar for a nightcap with B and her boyfriend. Our tab consisted of two Jack and waters and three beers. The total? $22.60. I'm not kidding. It's basically free. And this was a nice bar! Where I live, and also for B since she's lives in Chicago, I can't even get a beer for under $5! I just love Grand Rapids! The downtown is so beautiful and clean, and there just seems to be so much to do. It's very alive there. I've always thought maybe we'd end up living there someday. Who knows? Either way, the cost of living is sure less. I kept telling my husband that, but he thought I was exaggerating. Now he gets it!

Stills from the Music Video!

2011-10-14T15:20:00.003-04:00

I was in a music video a few weeks ago. It was really fun, and way easier than I anticipated. It's funny, because you feel awkward while it's being filmed, "acting", but it looks totally natural on camera.

Anyway, here are some still shots. Once I get the video, I hope to post it for you!!

I'm really excited I had the opportunity to work on this project, and will also be in one more of his videos. Possibly two more. it was a great experience, and what a fun way to earn extra money!

You can check out the singer, Jay Jolley, here. He's also on twitter.

Apples Galore!

2011-10-11T19:38:00.008-04:00

We picked so many apples! I've been eating one (maybe two) each day, and they taste delicious. In season fruit is really so much more delicious. The way nature intended.

I've also been baking quite a bit! I made Apple Crisp and Apple Pie-Cake, both recipes from Martha Stewart.

Source: marthastewart.com via Sarah on Pinterest

I also bought some parsnips at the grocery store last week. Have you ever tried parsnips? I love them! I often add them to stews or roasts when I make them in the crock pot. They cook like carrots and have a lovely flavor.
Here is the recipe I plan to try:

Source: marthastewart.com via Sarah on Pinterest

I really love the emails from Martha Stewart, especially when they consist of recipes with whatever items is in season: apples right now, rhubarb in the Spring, pumpkin, melon, ect. Typically, I remove myself from all email lists, but not Martha's!

I have such a busy couple weeks ahead. I'm in a wedding a week from Saturday, have a few modeling things in the works, and also my husband is super busy at work, which in turn, makes me feel even busier! Doesn't it just seem like Fall flies by? Before I know it, it'll be my birthday!

Fashion Show

2011-10-03T10:32:00.007-04:00

I had the opportunity to walk in a runway show last weekend. I was so nervous, but it was really fun! I met some great girls, and got to wear a beautiful dress.

Funniest part of the evening?? Oh, when one of the other models asked me my age (I made some reference to the 90s). When I told her I'm 28, so almost died! She said, "No way!! I'm 22 and I thought you were my age or younger! Gosh, I hope I look as good as you when I'm your age..." A bunch other girls seemed shocked at my age as well. Funny. Honestly, I do look young, but I thought it was super sweet she is hoping to look this good when she's my age...in 6 whole years.... Hahaha! She was so sincere, and I guess 28 does seem "old" when you're 22. I spent the day hanging out with two High School students, there with their moms. The moms were so darling, and I actually thought to myself, "I sure hope I'm so cute when I'm in my 40s" I guess it's all relative. One of the girls is a dancer, and the other lives right near me. It was fun hanging with them, since it was a very long day. Do you all in the South have Cider Mills? I always wondered if it's just a Northern thing?

Here are some pics from the show:

There is another of the two dolls I met, and I'm in the background. I love hilarious candid shot like this one....
Gotta wonder what the heck I'm doing in this picture???

I shot a music video on Saturday. As soon as I have it, I'll post it for you all to see. I have a few candids from the "wedding scene", which is hilarious because Jay (the singer) and I had met only once before. And now we're an old married couple! :) It was fun getting married all over again. B came to watch part of the shoot and he said it looked great from his perspective. It was nice having him there. The group I'm working with is very tight knit, and they were all eager to meet my husband. He really never wants to be "that guy", and I agree. I can be independent when it comes to modeling, but in this case, it was lovely having him there and fun too!

Yesterday, we went to the apple orchard. We picked a bag of apples, bought two pumpkins and enjoyed some cider and doughnuts. Doughnuts are probably my favorite guilty pleasure, and there nothing better than fresh, hot doughnuts! Delicious!Little catepiller I found. They're really cute.

I've been resisting Fall. It's my favorite season, but I just wasn't ready for the colder weather this year. After yesterday, I'm committed and very exciting to do some baking this week with my delicious apples!

Pinterst is the new black

2011-09-26T18:12:00.004-04:00

Sooooo, Pinterest has pretty much taken over my life. I. Am. Obsessed. I have the app on my iPhone and on my iPad., and whenever I have a few free minutes, I'm pinning!

I have found so many neat decorating ideas, recipes, pretty pictures, hair/makeup inspiration, and a world of hilarious quotes and posters. I also have found pictures of some products I loved growing up that I'd completely forgotten about!

Remember Kissing Koolers?!?!?!? I lived for these!

Source: yeahflashback.com via Sarah on Pinterest

Why don't they sell them anymore??? I had the pink and also the purple and there were the bomb.

Okay, what about these phones???? I wanted one more than anything in the world! Only, I didn't have my own phone line until H.S. and, by then, the trend was sort of over.

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Popples? Yep, I had a white one and a smaller purple one. I loved that little animal, whatever it was!

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Okay, I always remembered this toy as being one of my favorites, but I could never remember the name...it's called a Keyper! I had this Swan one, and I loved it! I think my sister ended up breaking it, or stealing the key. Something. I was pretty mad. I'm tempted to bid on one on ebay...

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This was my exact one:

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Spirographs were aweseom. I think my mom might still have ours. If she does, I'm using for a library program. These are still way cool!

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Now Jem pretty much ruled my life for a couple years...

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I went online and found the exact doll I had! Then...I pinned the picture! Pinning=winning.

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This is just the tip of the pinterest iceberg for me. I follow some of my readers, but if you're on there, let me know! I'd love to see what you're pinning!

Face to Face

2011-09-20T17:45:00.000-04:00

My best friend said to me yesterday, "Face to face is the way God intended us to interact with each other, and it's always best". She's right. I met with my friend mentioned in the previous post on Sunday evening, and we had a really great discussion. We didn't just "smooth things over", we communicated well, and I think our friendship is stronger for it. Sometimes people do grow apart, and while it's sad, often times it's just easier to let them walk away. I'm glad I didn't give up on this friendship, and I'm glad she didn't either. I sincerely appreciate the comments. It meant a lot to know I'm not alone, but also to know that this is really a very "normal" part of growing up. Some friends are worth it, others might not be, only you know in your heart how you feel. I'm glad I followed my heart and worked this out.

In some other news, I've lined up a few modeling gigs! On Friday, I'll be walking in a runway show for a local Detroit designer, Kelly Lynne. Her clothes are just darling, and she is a wonderful person. I'm happy to be working with her. I'm a bit nervous, but I'm just not going to let my nerves ruin this opportunity for me! I'm also slated to be in two music videos for a local artist, who is getting very popular all over the country. As soon as we film, I'll be sure to post the video and all the information for you! I know many of my readers are country music fans, so I think you'll all love his music!

I ordered my "Comp Cards" last week, and I'm dying for them to arrive! I wanted to wait to sign with more agencies until I have my cards. Now, the waiting game is killing me! I just hope that more good things keep coming with the adventure. It's exciting to be trying something so new!

Friendship

2011-09-16T15:52:00.000-04:00

Times like these are when having this, mostly anonymous, blog is such therapy for me! Only a few of my "real life" friends know about my blog or even read it! Luckily for me, I can be open and honest on here. Oftentimes, I feel like my blogging friends are more aware of some of the occurrences in my life, and I love having this community!

I'm 28, and over the last several years, my life has grown and changed so much. I've changed. I've matured, and I sometimes wonder when that happened? I've always been really social and had lots of girlfriends. In college, I met some wonderful women through Kappa Delta and we're still very close. I also kept in touch with some of my High School friends while in college and beyond. I've also met new friends, post college, from working and through other friends....typical, I think, when you're in your 20s. You meet friends over the years from different places.

Only, it's gotten dicey. As we grow up, sometimes we grow apart. My closest friend and I seem to see the world through the same eyes, and we give each other the benefit of the doubt. We have similar marriages and lifestyles, so it's an easy friendship. She once explained that in High School, we were all on a level playing field, for the most part, which made friendships easier. Now that we're adults with husbands, careers, success, failure, homes, some with families, pets, stresses, the playing field isn't as even. We tend to gravitate toward people who are like-minded. These changes and choices make friendships, which were fostered in our teens, harder to maintain, especially if the parties involved have made different choices. Immature people will start resenting other's successes, ect.

We both ended a friendship with the same H.S. friend in 2009. It's wasn't a "mean girl" situation, and we both had completely different reasons for ending the relationship. I tried to hang on longer, because I was closer with the girl, but in the end, I realized I couldn't be friends with her anymore. It was like breaking up with a boyfriend or something....I felt so sad for a long long time. In retrospect, I could have been more direct and more honest with my feelings before the friendship started falling apart. There was so much hurt on my end, that when the opportunity to handle the conflict the same way I always had, sort of brushing it under the rug and letting it go, arose, I couldn't. I had had enough.

Now, it's happening again. My H.S. and college best friend and I seem to be drifting apart. She's going through some tough times, and I've been there for her. Only, it's not being received in the way I'd anticipated and then she just went MIA. I called and called, finally emailing. Two days later, she responded via text in a manner I did not see coming. My email was heartfelt, kind, honest and I felt like I expressed myself very well. She is behaving more like we did 10 or 15 years ago. We're meeting for coffee to talk it out this weekend. I think the best thing I can do is let her speak. I've expressed my feelings in the email. Honestly, I'm not sure how I've failed her. I'm busy, but I make time to talk. I'm not a mind reader, so I can't know when she needs a friend unless she tells me. I can't know if I've hurt her unless she tell me. In H.S. girls ignore each other and eventually people figure it out, but now, if I call and don't hear back, I might forget about it for a couple days because I'm living my life. I hope we can better understand each other after we talk, and I really hope we can set a precedent for the future, one where we communicate, and no one keeps score. I'm not keeping score, but there's a record.

Am I alone in this? I'm just wondering if anyone else has or is experiencing this? I feel like oftentimes women project their own insecurities onto their friends. I'm not perfect, but my #1 rule in my friendships is to give the other person the benefit of the doubt. I never assume the worst. And most of the time, I let it go. because we're all jerks sometimes, we all get busy, we all fail, so why should I be a critic to my friends? Especially if I know it's not personal? I'm not really insecure though. Is that the worst thing you've ever heard? I like myself most of the time. Sure, there are things I've said and done and cringe when I think back. But for the most part, I try to be authentic, I own my actions, and I feel good about myself.

Today, I've used my blog as therapy. I was never one to keep a diary, but I needed to get this out. I hope I'm not alone, or maybe I do, because losing a friend or feeling like you're about to lose one really stinks! I have a hunch that I'm not alone though....

Karl Lagerfeld for Macy's Part Deux

2011-09-15T07:02:00.000-04:00

My SIL and I headed to Macy's over Labor Day weekend to bond and get some Karl Lagerfeld at prices we can afford. While I posted all my favs here, I ended up purchasing a dress I did not find very intriguing online. In person though, on my body, it is divine.

Source: fashionista.com via Sarah on Pinterest

I tried on several other options. The tweed dress was really cool, but the fit was "off". I didn't want to have it altered, and the size down fit (amen), but wasn't really a "work friendly" fit...a little too tight for day.
I'm very happy with my purchase though, because as my SIL mentioned a few times, a classic black dress, with a beautiful fit and design will be in my closet for many years to come. I think it'll become one of those pieces I wear often and will have many memories associated with it in time.

Greenfield Village

2011-09-14T14:04:00.006-04:00

Over Labor Day weekend, B and I went to Greenfield Village with his parents. I hadn't visited since I was a kid, and while I remembered some of it, it was so neat to visit again as an adult. Greenfield Village is an outdoor historical museum. There is a running steam locomotive, which we rode. I was sprayed with ash a couple times! We also rode in authentic Model T cars and had a guided tour. The village houses many historical homes and buildings procured by Henry Ford himself. We spent several hours there, and did not visit every building. Much like Disney World, Greenfield Village takes more than a day. We did visit Henry Ford's birthplace (set up exactly as he remembered it, complete with the same China his mother used, Harvey Firestone's childhood farm (which is still a working farm on the property, Thomas Edison's Menlo Park Lab moved from New Jersey, the Wright Brother's bicycle shop, and my favorite, the Heinz House, moved to Michigan from Pennsylvania. The Heinz house was always my favorite because they display every antique Heinz bottle and product and tell the history of the company. There is a general store, which was moved from a northern Detroit suburb. Actors work throughout the village and are "in character".

Another neat attraction is the crafts area. We saw a man blowing glass, there were pottery demonstrations and a very cool home which houses several types of weaves, including one so intricate, it's thought to be the world's first computer.

In typical form, I left my camera at home. What's new? But I did take a few photos with my iphone.

We also ventured into The Henry Ford Museum. There was an exhibit showing Presidential Limousines. I was really hoping JFK's limo would be among those on display, and it was!

I was interested to learn that JFK's limo was used by both President Johnson and President Nixon after some changes were made to it's design and safety features. I imagine Presidential limos are very expensive to build, so it makes sense this limo continued to be used, but it still did surprise me.

I'm not sure if I've ever mentioned this, but I really love collecting flattened pennies. I've collected them as long as I can remember, and more recently have acquired many from Disney World. To my delight, there was a penny press machine at The Henry Ford with an image of the JFK limo on it! What a wonderful and inexpensive (a mere 51 cents!) souvenir!

The history of The Henry Ford and Greenfield Village is very interesting. You can read the wiki page here. And if you ever get the opportunity to visit either, I would encourage you to do so! Henry Ford spent his life acquiring these precious pieces of history, and it's such a delight to be able to enjoy them!

"I am collecting the history of our people as written into things their hands made and used.... When we are through, we shall have reproduced American life as lived, and that, I think, is the best way of preserving at least a part of our history and tradition..." -Henry Ford, on his museum

October Wedding

2011-09-06T10:34:00.001-04:00

I've mentioned that I'm a bridesmaid this October in my college roommate's wedding. I am finding it very fun to be on the other side of the wedding planning process. Instead of being the bride, I get to relax a bit, but I'm still able to be involved. I really enjoyed planning my own wedding, and I'm enjoying being a sounding board for the bride. Also, it's fun to be apart of another wedding with a completely different "vision" than my own. The bride has more contemporary taste, and her wedding is being held in an art museum with a modern aesthetic. I love it! Her invitations are so cool, and the color scheme is very chic.

She pretty laid back, so she let us have a lot of input on the bridesmaid dresses we liked. She finally decided on Badgley Mischka, and they're lovely. We ordered pewter. When the dresses arrived, they are a warmer tone then we'd expected. Initially, I was thinking if the charcoal shoes we liked didn't match, we'd go with silver. However, the dresses has a much warmer undertone, almost taupe. I went to Nordstrom and found these shoes: The color is a beautiful blush pink which compliments the warm undertones of the dress.

Source: polyvore.com via Sarah on Pinterest

I was thrilled when the bride said she liked them too! Then, I was looking in September's Bazaar, and I saw this:

Source: s91.photobucket.com via Sarah on Pinterest

I guess we're are very on trend with our shoes! They also come in ivory, so I hope the bride was able to find them in her size. They compliment the design of her gown perfectly!

I swear, I missed my calling! I think working in a bridal boutique would have been right up my alley! Styling wedding parties would be such fun! Thankfully, I can take credit for these fantastic shoes! :) I know we'll all be wearing them often after the wedding weekend!

Karl Lagerfeld for Macys

2011-08-30T19:31:00.001-04:00

I know some other bloggers have posted about this divine collection that hits Macys stores tomorrow, but I couldn't resist sharing some of the beautiful images myself. I'm not typically one to rush to the mall for anything, especially a "celeb" line or those high end lines for Target. They're just not usually my thing...but Chanel is my thing, so Saturday, my sister-in-law and I are heading to Macys, bright and early, to see the collection for ourselves. Here is what I'm really looking forward to trying on:

Source: fashionista.com via Sarah on Pinterest

I am obsessed with this dress's crisp white collar. Stark and minimal. Very classic. VERY Chanel.

Source: fashionista.com via Sarah on Pinterest

I very much like the shocking pink paired with black. It's one of the only colors I like paired with black, other than white, of course.

Source: fashionista.com via Sarah on Pinterest

These dresses have a "Mad Men" vibe with the slim silhouette, but the exaggerated neckline keeps the design very current, almost futuristic.

Source: fashionista.com via Sarah on Pinterest

I've always wanted a pair of black leather pants. Preppy? No, but I do think I'd love them for a very long time and wear them well.

Are you as excited as I am to see this line??

Honest Time

2011-08-22T18:31:00.001-04:00

When I started this blog, it was all about wedding plans, cooking and style. Over the last couple years, as my life has progressed, so has the blog. I am honest on here. I try to be real, even when I worry I might alienate some readers. I read a variety of blogs myself, and sometimes I don't always agree with the author's opinions, but I like that! Many of my friends are so much like me that we don't really debate issues, so it's refreshing to read and "get to know" new people with different experiences and perspectives from my own.

So now I'm going to open up in a way I haven't really in the past.... On Saturday, my husband and I had a blow out! I'm talking b.a.d. argument. I don't pretend to have a perfect marriage, because, who does, right? BUT, my husband and I do get along really well. We are a lot alike when it comes to our opinions and how we see the world. We both work hard, and we work together, because our "vision" for our future is one in the same. My mom once commented that she enjoyed debating with the man she was seeing at the time. She enjoyed debating with my dad when they were married. B and I joked that we can't really "debate" because we pretty much agree on everything. We end up heatedly agreeing with one another, and then we laugh because, what's the point? We need a third party to get involved.Weeellll, my motto of "don't get too comfortable, because karma's a you-know-what" rang true on Saturday. We got into it, big time. Over what you might ask? Oh, it's the same argument we often have- grocery shopping. We solved the "lunch issue", and now we've moved on, and we're fighting over a lack of snacks. He needs more readily available snacks and I'm not a psychic, so I don't know what to buy for him. My talents are numerous, believe me, but reading minds? Sorry, haven't mastered that one yet! ;)

But the fight wasn't really just about snacks. It was about communication and respect. I respect my husband. I think he respects me. Do we tell each other, "Good morning dear, I love and respect you." everyday? Umm, noooo. But, we show each other. We have our unique ways of doing that, but we do it everyday.But I think maybe I'm slacking. Not having snacks in the house seems so trivial, but grocery shopping is one of my "duties" in our marriage. One of the ways I show my love and respect is to make nice dinners, or bake some cupcakes just because. And, I guess, to have snacks in the house. I also can be a bitch sometimes. Sometimes it's funny, other times I think he feels like I treat as though he were a member of my staff. If I had a staff, I'd probably be way more pleasant because I wouldn't be so stressed. I'm a perfectionist, and I can be cranky when things aren't the way I want them to be. I get tired and can't keep up with my perfectionism, but can't rest until things are "perfect"....it's a vicious cycle.

The argument was resolved. He wasn't innocent in the whole thing. It was one of those arguments when you both "get it all out there". I cried, we both shouted, the cat seemed to take my side (obvi), and then we made up. We wasted a couple hours fighting, but in the end it was kinda worth it. It's like a job review only way less civil. I think sometimes we need to "check" each other, because if we don't it'll go from something we can resolve to something we can't. I'm sure I'll go back to being bitchy again, and he'll go back to overreacting and making me even more upset. We will have another blow out (luckily this only happened about once a year), and we'll "check" each other again. BUT we will still care enough to do this little routine. And in all the moments in between, we will show love and respect in our own little ways. Sometimes I think fighting is healthy, at least for us, because I can handle whatever it is he has to say. What I don't think I could ever handle is if he stopped talking, or I stopped talking. If we stopped caring enough to tell the other person what an ass hole they are. That is terrifying.In the meantime, I'm going to Kroger, and I plan to buy more snacks then you'd find in a frat house. I will write little notes on the bags saying, 'I love you, and I don't care if these snacks make you chunky....because you work hard for me, and for us, and you deserve a damn Milky Way". :)

Babe Paley

2011-08-18T09:10:00.002-04:00

"Mrs. P. had only one fault: she was perfect; otherwise, she was perfect." -Truman Capote, describing Babe Paley

After reading about Truman Capote's back and White Ball, I've been so intrigued by the women he called his "swans". This is the third installment, and I have to say, babe Paley may have been the Swan Queen. You can read the first two installments here and here.

Born Barbara Cushing in 1915, she was the daughter of a world-renowned Boston surgeon. babe was the youngest of three girls. Both her sisters married extremely well, and babe was no exception. After making her societal debut in 1934 and graduating from Boston's The Winsor School, she met and married oil heir Stanley Grafton Mortimer, Jr. in 1940. They had two children: Amanda Jay Mortimer and Stanley Grafton Mortimer III. The couple divorced in 1946. Some speculate that babe neglected her children while pursuing social status and another wealthy husband. Her daughter has gone as far as to say that their relationship was "virtually nonexistent" and that the distance "was her choice, not mine."

In 1946, Babe met William S. Paley, the founder of CBS. They married in 1947 and had two more children: Kate and Bill, Jr. The couple resided in a suite at The St. Regis, and spent weekends at either of their two country homes: Kiluna Farm on Long Island or Kiluna North in New Hampshire.

During this period there were still anti-Semitic prejudices in society excluding Babe and her husband from many social functions and clubs. However, Babe kept a close knit circle of glamorous friends, including Gloria Guinness, C.Z. Guest, Maria Agnelli, Slim Keith, and Truman Capote, who she, like the other Swans, dropped after he aired their dirty laundry in his book Answered Prayers.

“I never saw her not grab anyone’s attention, the hair, the makeup, the crispness. You were never conscious of what she was wearing; you noticed Babe and nothing else.” -Designer, Bill Bass

Babe was extremely influential in the fashion world. She regularly purchased entire haute couture lines, and was voted to the Best Dressed List at least 14 times, finally being induced into the Fashion Hall of Fame in 1958. She was once seen leaving a New York City restaurant with a scarf tied around the strap of her handbag. Apparently she didn't know what to do with it, so she just tied it there nonchalantly. after the photo was published, millions of American women copied the look and it became the hottest trend. (Side note: My mother often does this, and I do too because my mom always had. I'm excited to learn the origin of this cute trend.)
Her influence went beyond scarfs though. She made pantsuits chic, embraced her grey hair in stead of coloring it, and often, famously, mixed costume jewelry with the real deal. And, she owned lots of the "real deal" gems. Even at the Black and White Ball, she wore costume jewelry, which was very en vogue at the time.
Her life wasn't picture perfect though. her husband was unfaithful, yet extremely demanding of his wife. He demanded she be dressed to the nine's at all time, while sometimes seeming to resent her image and status as a fashion icon. The constant pressure from her husband, the media and the public for her to maintain her "picture perfect" image put a strain on Babe.

With her husband in New York City.At the Black and White Ball.

Babe was also a heavy smoker at two packs a day. The stress and the smoking eventually took it's toll, and Babe was diagnosed with lung cancer in 1974. In true form, she planned her own funeral down to the last detail, even choosing the food and wine she wanted served. She allocated her personal belongings and jewelry collection to various friends and family members, wrapping the items in colorful paper and organizing it all in a precise filing system giving specific direction on how each gift would be distributed after her death. She passed away July 6, 1978, the day after her 63rd birthday.

She is regarded along with Jacqueline Kennedy, and Truman's other swans, as a true 1960s style icon and having embodied the young affluent class to which many Americans aspired during that decade.

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Professional Photos Are Here!

2011-08-17T08:30:00.001-04:00

I am so excited and very very happy with the outcome of my professional shoot! Hopefully, I'll have my Comp Cards in the next week or two. My bestie in Chicago is designing them for me. She's an amazing graphic artist, and working with her is fun because she totally gets the astethic I want. Ok, here you are....

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Giveaway Opportunity

2011-08-16T13:30:00.002-04:00

I am very pleased to announce that UPrinting.com has contacted me to host a giveaway. Now that's a nice way to start the week!

This is an unique opportunity to design a Print Flyer or a Party Flyer. The winner will receive 250 pieces on 14pt card stock gloss measuring either 4" x 6" or 4.25" x 5.5". This includes front side printing only.

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This is a cool opportunity to print some flyers for your blog, business, school/community event, place of whorship, or even just some fun personal contact information cards! Please take some time to look UPrinting! The possibilites are vast.

I hope to use this company to print my modeling cards after they're designed. The product looks just beautiful and the prices are very competitive.

I will draw a winner for this giveaway next Monday, August 22.

To enter, please leave comment.

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Please leave the links in your comment. You do not need to leave separate comments, just make sure you're clear about what you've done when you comment so i can give you the apporopriate number of entries!

Good luck!

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Oh, Wow.

2011-08-11T10:51:00.002-04:00

My surgery went well on Friday. However, my recovery has taken much longer then I expected. I'm finally feeling like myself again today! This year has been crazy for me health wise. Two surgeries and strep throat! I really hope I'm home free now.

Last Thursday, I met with a local talent and modeling agency. I'm still waiting for my retouched photos....I'm dying to see them! The meeting went well, but it wasn't what I had expected. The agent encouraged me to take acting lessons. I was sort of taken aback, because I'm not an actress nor do I have unrealistic expectations to be come an actress. I'd love to model. I'd love to work the auto show circuit and speak on a platform about cars. I think some speech classes might help.

After thinking more about the meeting, I think I understand why the agent got so excited about the possibilities of acting for me. I'm outgoing. And, I'm 28. I literally have nothing to lose, so I went into the meeting and was just myself. I think she is often in meetings with younger girls who are terribly shy. If I were 16, I can assure you, I'd still be my outgoing self. I'm just not afraid of situations like meeting an agent. Maybe I've learned enough in my life to know that there are truly scary things, and meeting a woman who can help me earn some extra money is not one of them! :) Either way, being outgoing isn't enough to make an actress out of me!

Once my pictures are finished, I'll post them for you all! And, I'll be able to visit more agencies. I did end up signing with the agency on Thursday and already had a job opportunity, though i was way too sore from the surgery to try to go for it. This is such uncharted territory for me, but so far, so good!

I hope you all are having a great week! Stay tuned for a giveaway coming soon!

Phew

2011-08-03T14:45:00.004-04:00

I really want to post. I want to share all about my photo shoot last Friday. I can share some pics as soon as they're edited. I want to do another "Swans" post on Babe Paley. And I want to tell you all about a great book I'm reading.

But....

BUT....I'm too flippin busy this week! It's the final week of our library's Summer Reading Program ~~from Hell~~. I'm also trying to navigate the government waters of Social Security, Medicare and other b.s. for my dad right now, and I'm still not really eating carbs. So I'm hungry too. Not hungry, hungry, but I'd love some freaking Mac & Cheese with truffle oil and 17 loaves of Italian bread dipped in olive oil. And maybe some McDonald's french fries.

I'm having surgery Friday on my ovary. I have some cysts. They need to come out. Funny how no one can really tell me why I have random growths on my ovaries, but I do. There is, apparently, no cure for this freakish issue either. So, on Friday, after my surgery, my mom is taking me to McDonald's for a shake and also the Original Pancake House for as many pancakes as my tummy can handle. I can't wait. Plus, I had this same surgery fours years ago, and I know it's no biggie. Was only really out of it for a day.

So stay tuned. I will post tomorrow. I will, I will, I will....because.....I'm meeting with a modeling agent in the morning. And I know you're all just dying to hear about it! Right???? Either way, you'll have the option to read all the details!

Thanks for bearing with me and not abandoning me! :) xo

Happy Birthday Jacqueline

2011-07-28T10:42:00.004-04:00

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Today is Jackie's 82nd birthday. I've read so much about her and studied her life in such detail, that sometimes I feel like we know each other, or at least that I know her. It may sound odd, but the reason why I think I've spent so much time reading and studying anything and everything I can get my hands hands on about this woman, is because I feel connected to her in many ways. Our childhood and adolescence experiences were errily similar, as well as some personal relationships. Where we differ, I admire her more because some of her strengths are my weaknesses. She's an icon yes, but, to me, much more. Happy Birthday Mrs. Kennedy, wherever you are.

I Love Your Style

2011-07-26T12:56:00.000-04:00

One of the best things about working in a library is that I have access to almost any book I can imagine ever wanting to read. I also get to "preview" books before I decide to purchase them for my home collection. This really comes in handy with new cookbooks.

Amazon is a great website for me because they're always suggesting new books I might like and they're pretty spot on with their suggestions. I'm a creature of habit, so after reading one book on Parisian style or having purchased the Preppy Handbook, I am eager to see what else is out there on the topic or what's similar! Amazon recently recommended Amanda Brooks' book I Love Your Style: How to Define and Refine Your Personal Style.

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I immediately inter loaned it from another area library, and dove in! Amanda is one of those stylish people who was born into a stylish family, and worked her rear off to make something of herself in the world of fashion. Lilly Pulitzer herself actually designed Amanda's mother's bridesmaid gowns for her 1960s Palm Beach wedding! She doesn't go into great detail, but one gets the impression that family connections, hard work, and a bit of luck all came together to open some incredible doors for her. And she knows her stuff!

The book is divided into three parts: Definable Style (Classic, Bohemian and Minimal), Indefinable Style (High Fashion, Street, and Eclectic) and, of course, a nice Shopping Guide (Basics, Cheap Chic, Designer and Vintage).

I immediately knew I'd fall into the "Classic" style, and I do for the most part, but a person can be more than one, and style evolves. To be honest, I completely skipped the Bohemian chapter, because it's really not my thing, and I can say for certain it never will be. The funny thing though, the minute I got to the chapter on Minimal style, I realized something- my true style is actually minimal. I love simple, simple, simple, and that can translate into very classic as well. I hardly ever wear accessories, prefer the highest quality I can afford, and sincerely appreciate clothing for it's cut and fit over anything else.

Sure, I love my Lilly dresses and my pearls, but even those items for me, are worn in the simplest way possible. I rarely wear Lilly with pearls! The horror, I know!
I don't know if I gravitate toward this style because I started really getting into fashion in the Mid-90s when Calvin Klein was king, everyone worshipped at the feet of Kate Moss and wore CK One. I was also extremely obsessed with Gwenyth Paltrow's style (she, coincidentally wore a lot of Calvin Klein). Or, if it's because deep down inside, I abhor clutter and I'm kind of a fashion ~~snob~~ purist. Whatever the cause, and it's probably a combination of a lot of things (this could breed a whole new type of therapy....why do I dress the way I do? How it really goes back to your mother and how she dressed and decorated the house? Haha!), but it explains a lot! And it also helped me to truly identify my core fashion vein, which in turn will help me to continue to build a wardrobe that will serve me well for many years. I think Classic can be very Minimal, and therefore I can wear certain styles forever! Think of the cigarette pants Audrey Hepburn made famous in Funny Face? Minimal, yet Classic! And I own 8 pairs in various neutral shades. I could go on and on, but I can look back at my life and some of my most important fashion moments (Yes, we've all had them even we aren't celebs), and I can identify the Minimal influence so strongly prevalent. I guess this was a break through for me in some way. Hey, I'll own that!

Amanda Brooks was recently named Fashion Director at Barney's New York, so she is no longer maintaining her blog, but if you want to read the back log, click here. And check this book out from your library or buy it online, it's pretty inexpensive. I'd love to know if you discover anything new about your style and about yourself. In a world where things often seem gloomy, the economy sucks, we are at risk to becoming slaves to our careers and/or mortgages, it's kind of nice to spend a little (or a lot of) time thinking about your style and what it says about you, right now, in your past, and how it can help you shape your future. Enjoy!

For the Love of Burberry

2011-07-25T18:58:00.009-04:00

Remember when I'd saved the money for my LV, but was hesitant to pull the trigger? Looking back, I can't imagine why! I really love the bag, find it to be an excellent investment*, and felt really proud to have been able to save for it.

I might have opened Pandora's box.... Friday, I was at the mall shopping for a photo shoot I have next week (more to come on that), and I tried on the most perfect Winter coat ever. From this point forward, it will be referred to as " the coat that walks on water". Why I tried on a cashmere coat when it is 99 outside, I'm not sure, but good thing I did, because "the coat that walks on water" spoke to me....and it said, "Save....save your money, because you neeed me! You will not be able to walk on water, but you'll be warm, and you'll look gooood."
Here it is:

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Simply, minimal, and just lovely. if you felt it, you'd understand exactly why it's so perfect! it's as soft as a cashmere sweater.

While shopping online, I also found the below coat. It's so beautiful! If I had the means, I'd purchase it immediately! If you know me really well, you might guess why I'm so attracted to it....

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Did you guess? It's because style is eternal, my friends, style is eternal. While small details might change, there are some things that are always just perfect. In case you don't know, JBKO's coat was also a light camel in color with a beautiful fur collar.

Alright, back to the heat! NOT that I'm complaining, because even "the coat that walks on water" cannot make sub zero temps, ice, and snow anything other then simply "a means to an end" for this princess! I need the sun for my freckles, after all!

*Some readers might think that purchasing an expensive bag, item of clothing, jewelry or a coat isn't quite an "investment", but to me it is! I love fashion, I love nice things, and as long as my mainstream investments see regular deposits, my credit cards carry no balance, and all my other bills are paid on time, I see no reason why I can't save for, and purchase whatever the heck I want. For me, it's part of what makes getting up in the morning a little easier- to be able to put on something nice, or have the little goal in the back of my head for that great new addition to my wardrobe...to each his own, but I don't really care what anyone else thinks about me referring to these items as "investments". I come from a school where, if I can purchase the item with cash, and none of my other bills suffer, I can afford it. And purchasing inexpensive things that break and need constant replacing might cost more in the long run anyway! Plus, I take really good care of my things. Okay! Hoping off my bedazzled soap box now!

When it's too hot.

2011-07-21T10:43:00.002-04:00

It's so hot. All over the country. Today in Michigan we're breaking records with this heat. personally, I don't really mind it. I have AC, the library where I work is like an igloo, and my car cools down very quickly. However, it's a little tough to dress for this weather and still look prefer, not to mention keeping "warm" indoors and not melting outdoors!

I've never used Polyvore, so I thought I'd give it a try today to create The "Cool" Librarian. Here is essentially what I'm wearing today, and is the basis for my work uniform in this hot weather. I couldn't find the Land's End Canvas dress I'm actually wearing, so I substituted a really darling dress with a Peter Pan collar.

The "Cool" Librarian by princessfreckles featuring a peter pan collar dress

You'll notice I tend to wear very minimal jewelry in this heat: wedding rings, watch, earrings. Nothing sticking to me! Also, I like to wear my long hair up in this weather. Those little Goody bun coils are amazing and really easy to use! I might not even bother wearing the cardigan, yet it's good to have in case the AC starts blasting! I like neutral colors on hot days also, and a breezy cut to my dress. Nothing too tight or with too thick fabric.

What is your Summer uniform? Do you find it hard to still look professional while staying "cool"? Lucky for me, I work in a atmosphere that doesn't require I wear a suit! I can be more creative.

New Site

2011-07-20T11:32:00.002-04:00

RAW over at Blog Sales United recently contacted me about my little blog sale, which she offered to promote on her new site! Seriously, you all should take at look! it's a one stop link to loads of great blog sales, and posting there is free!

She's also hosting a fantastic giveaway for a Kate Spade gift card! Spread the word! Let's help RAW out and promote this site. It's the gift that keeps giving.

Pink Lemonade Cake

2011-07-18T17:39:00.002-04:00

My bff does not like to bake, so when she came across the recipe for Pink Lemonade Cake in a magazine, she pulled it out for me. I was only too happy to make it for her.

I had every intention of taking a photo of my finished cake, but I didn't. I made the mistake of inverting the top layer without cutting it to be perfectly even. This caused the top layer to crack. I was so upset, but my friend did not care. She said it tastes great, and I guess that is all that matters.

Here is the recipe from Paula Deen:

Cake:
butter for coating pan 1 (18.25-ounce)
white cake mix, plus any additional ingredients the package directions call for
3 tablespoon pink lemonade drink powder
1 teaspoon finely grated lemon zest

Frosting:
1 lb confectioners sugar
1/2 cup (1 stick) unsalted butter, softened
3 tablespoon frozen pink lemonade concentrate
1 teaspoon vanilla
1 teaspoon finely grated lemon zest

Directions
Preheat the oven to 350F. Butter two 8-inch round cake pans and line the bottom with parchment or waxed paper; set aside.

For the cake, in a large bowl, stir together the cake mix and lemonade powder. Prepare the cake batter according to the package directions, using any additional ingredients called for (eggs, milk, water, oil, etc…). Stir the lemon zest into the batter.
Pour the batter evenly into the prepared pans. Bake for 30 to 35 minutes or until golden and a toothpick inserted in the centers of the cakes comes out clean.
Let the cakes cool in the pans for 10 minuets. Carefully turn cakes out onto a wire rack to cool completely.

For the frosting, beat together the confectioners’ sugar and butter until fluffy. Beat in the remaining ingredients until combined.

Transfer one cake to a cake stand or large platter. Using an offset spatula spread the top of the cake with a layer of frosting. Place the second cake on top of the first. Spread the remaining frosting over the top and sides of both layers.

The recipe on the Food Network's site calls for two sticks of butter for the frosting. This made for a very creamy and easy to spread frosting. The frosting is a beautiful pale shade of pink, perfect for a bridal shower, wedding, or baby shower. Or a girl's birthday.

B and I got to brainstorming after the cake was "done". I introduced him to the Cake Pops at Starbucks, and now he is hooked! He thinks that this cake might be amazing as a cake ball or cake pop, and I agree. I think I might try that before the Summer ends. I've never made cake balls or cake pops, but I know how it's done from reading various blogs. I've also requested a book on the subject from the library.

We also saw Harry Potter this weekend. I thought it was good, but not as great as I had expected it to be. Maybe it's because it's the last one and I had really high hopes? I think that once the DVD is out, I'll watch both parts in one sitting. That might make it seem more fluid.

We also went to a Tiger's game on Friday night. I was finally able to try a Chicago style hot dog, and it was delicious! I can't wait to have another! This wee, though, I'm not eating carbs. This is so not like me. I try to eat healthy foods for the most part, but I love variety! However, I have a big event on Friday, and I want to slim down as much as possible. Basically, when you don't eat carbs and drink lots of water, you slim right now. Even if it's superficial. I love salt, and I know that causes bloat. Anyway, I'm doing just fine not eating carbs, but I think that's because I can tell myself its temporary! :) Can't wait for some pizza or something "carby" next weekend!

Semi-Wordless Wednesday

2011-07-13T12:39:00.001-04:00

Sisters....

The strongest of bonds....

That continues to grow....
Even when we're so far apart it makes my heart ache.

Adventures in Cooking

2011-07-12T18:04:00.000-04:00

If you've been reading this blog for awhile, you know that I love to cook and bake. You might also recall that certain foods intimidate me a bit. I've wanting to make this recipe for braised Pork Shoulder for a while. We decided to make it over the holiday weekend, then eat the leftovers all week. It was delicious!!!

Here's the recipe:

Serves 8

Ingredients
6 ounces pancetta, finely chopped
2 medium onions, thinly sliced
1 bone-in pork shoulder (6 to 7 pounds), skin on (if making potatoes), room temperature
Coarse salt and freshly ground pepper
2 tablespoons extra-virgin olive oil
1 head garlic, minced
2 teaspoons fennel seeds, toasted and ground
1 teaspoon crushed coriander seeds
2 cups Belgian-style ale
1 cup homemade or store-bought low-sodium chicken stock

Directions
Preheat oven to 300 degrees. Crisp pancetta in a large Dutch oven over medium-low heat, until fat is rendered, about 10 minutes. Transfer to a plate using a slotted spoon.

Add onions to Dutch oven. Cook over medium-high heat, stirring occasionally, until caramelized, about 25 minutes. Transfer to plate using slotted spoon.

Season pork with salt and pepper. Add oil to Dutch oven, and sear pork, fat side down, until golden, about 5 minutes. Flip, and repeat.

Add garlic and spices to pot. Cook until fragrant, about 1 minute. Add ale, stock, pancetta, and onions; bring to a simmer. Transfer to oven, and braise pork, covered, basting every hour, until meat is falling off the bone, about 4 hours.

Shred meat (just what you're using) using 2 forks, and drizzle with warm skimmed jus.

Serving idea: Pile shredded pork on creamy polenta. Drizzle with jus.

We had ours with polenta that I fried in a frying pan. Then, we had some of the leftovers atop egg noodles with the jus. I've also been enjoying the meat plain with veggies. I think it might also be delicious on a toasted bun as well.

I did buy a 7lb shoulder, and it was a lot! Next time I'll try to find a smaller cut.

Don't forget that I'm selling a Lilly dress and a Kate Spade purse. Accepting all offers!!

Little Blog Sale

2011-07-07T11:47:00.000-04:00

I've seen other bloggers have small sales on their sites in the past, so I figured I'd give it a try! I'm starting small and seeing how this goes. :) I've included professional pictures of both items, as well as my own pictures.

First up is the Lilly Jubilee Fiesta Dress in the Pink Tiger Lilly print. Size 10, but runs small. I was an 8 when I wore this. I've worn it three times.

I'm asking $75 shipped, or the best offer.

Next up, a brand new with tags, Kate Spade Fashion Nylon Maryanne bag in fraise. It retails for $345. I'm asking $230 shipped.

If you're interested in either item, please email me at princessfreckle@gmail.com. I can send you a paypal invoice and answer any questions you might have! Happy Shopping!

Guest Room Tour

2011-07-05T08:36:00.002-04:00

I have been wanting to upload these photos forever! Finally had time yesterday. So, without further delay, I present our Nautical Guest Room:

We bought this poster in Disney World on our honeymoon. I had it framed recently, and I think it looks perfect! This really started the nautical theme.

"Sun, Sand and the Sea. Where else would you rather be?"

d'Artagnan loves to hang out in this room. I call it his pied a terre.

Found this chest at Marshals.

Words to live by.

The mirror is from TJ Maxx. My mom found it, and I think it's really cool.

Love this lamp from Target. I brought the shells back from Naples.

Hope you guys like my hang out! xoxo, d'Art

Marella Agnelli

2011-06-25T15:16:00.001-04:00

"If they were both in Tiffany's window, Marella would be more expensive." -Truman Capote (comparing Agnelli to that other rare bird, Babe Paley)

Marella Agnelli, wife of Fiat magnate Gianni Agnelli, was another of Truman Capote's jet-set and lovely swans. In 1963, she was included on the International Best Dressed List, later becoming a member of the Hall of Fame. In addition to being a well dressed wife and mother, she was educated in Paris, and had several careers. She was assistant to photographer Erwin Blumenfeld, and also an occasional editor and photography contributor to Vogue. In 1973 after developing a textile line for Abraham-Zumsteg, she was awarded the Resources Council's prestigious 'Roscoe' (the design trade's equivalent of the Oscar). She is also an avid gardener, having authored several books on the subject, often, contributing her own photographs for the books.

Below is a photo of Marella with Princess Luciana Pignatelli on one of Agnelli's yatchts in the port of Beaulieu-sur-Mer on the Côte d'Azur. From Vogue, July 1, 1962:

I am currently reading Princess Luicana's book, The Beautiful People's Beauty Book. She describes much of Marella's lifestyle and beauty regimin. It seems Marella is very fast paced and active. Her husband was very impatient and also always on the move, so Marella developed the ability to be ready to go at the drop of a hat. The couple had several homes around the world, and she could be ready to travel to one of them in no time at all.

Here are Marella and Gianni at Truman's Black and White Ball:

Here she is in the library of her home in Turin, Italy, photographed for Vogue, January 1, 1967:

In a January 1977 interview with Vogue's Joan Juliet Buck, Marella said of her endevors, "One applies a certain technical know-how, some culture, and a certain amount of taste—which I hope I have. It is my little soufflé." Such a philosophy! Life as a little soufflé. Couldn't have said it better myself.

Rhubarb

2011-06-22T13:15:00.000-04:00

On Saturday, I went down the Eastern market in Detroit. It's a large farmer's market located near all the major meat, seafood, and poultry distributors. They also have flats of flowers and other plants available.

I was on the hunt for rhubarb because I've been dying to make this cake since I snipped the recipe from Martha Stewart Living.

This is my finished product and it is delicious!

Here's the recipe straight from Martha's website:

Rhubarb Upside-Down Cake

This cake has a crumb "topping" that actually ends up on the bottom. Each bite has a surprisingly crunchy texture.

Yield
Makes one 9-inch cake
Serves 10 Add to Shopping List

Ingredients

For the Topping

4 tablespoons unsalted butter, melted
1/2 cup all-purpose flour
1/4 cup sugar
Coarse salt

For the Cake

1 1/2 sticks unsalted butter, room temperature, plus more for buttering pan
1 pound rhubarb, trimmed and cut on a very sharp diagonal about 1/2 inch thick
1 3/4 cups sugar
1 1/2 cups all-purpose flour
1 1/2 teaspoons baking powder
Coarse salt
1/2 teaspoon finely grated orange zest plus 1 tablespoon fresh orange juice
2 large eggs
1 cup sour cream

Directions

Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Make the topping: Stir together butter, flour, sugar, and 1/4 teaspoon salt until moist and crumbly.

Make the cake: Butter a 9-inch round cake pan (2 inches deep). Dot with 4 tablespoons butter (cut into pieces). Toss rhubarb with 3/4 cup sugar; let stand for 2 minutes. Toss again, and spread in pan.

Whisk together flour, baking powder, and 1 1/2 teaspoons salt. Beat remaining stick butter and cup sugar with a mixer on medium speed until pale and fluffy. Beat in zest and juice. Beat in eggs, 1 at a time, until incorporated, scraping down sides of bowl. Beat in flour mixture in 3 additions, alternating with sour cream, until smooth. Spread evenly over rhubarb. Crumble topping evenly over batter.

Bake until a toothpick inserted into the center comes out clean and top springs back when touched, about 1 hour. Let cool for 10 minutes. Run a knife around edge of cake, and invert onto a wire rack. Let cool completely.

Cook's Note
Let the cake cool for 10 minutes before removing it from the pan. The rhubarb will be too hot to handle safely right after baking. But if the cake sits much longer, it may stick.

I used a 9 inch spring form pan, because it is deeper than my regular cake pans. The syrup leaked a bit (I placed the pan on a cookie sheet), but it was no big deal. The cake is really delicious with the rhubarb adding a tangy element that I love. I'm thinking this recipe might be tweaked to make some amazing cupcakes, but without a liner, I'm not sure....

I also bought two pots of flowers for the front of our house. I'm not really that into gardening, so I just bought the pre-made type:

I do love flowers, but the act of gardening just doesn't appeal to me. I think the pots look nice. Perhaps next year I'll plant pots on my own. I'm hoping we'll have a new deck next summer, so I'll need to spruce it up. I might just be the person who needs to hire a gardener when we have a house. Luckily, the condo association handles the other greenery you see in the picture.

Work has been nuts with Summer Reading starting this week! I hope to catch up with this blog soon!

Bridesmaid Dress

2011-06-09T15:15:00.000-04:00

My friend decided on the below Badgley Mischka bridesmaid dress for us to wear. I tried this dress on, and I love it! I actually almost chose this same dress for my bridesmaids when I was planning my own wedding.

Our dresses will be pewter. The bride's dress is a stunning silk organza material, so I think satin will compliment it very well and be very formal for the reception space. I plan to have this dress cut to cocktail length and altered to fit like a pencil skirt after the wedding. I figure I can wear it again to another wedding (so long as the bridesmaids aren't in pewter!) or for dinner or a holiday party.

I have found several great shoe options. I am loving this pair from B.P. at Nordstrom.

Aren't these darling??? Probably not the most comfortable though. I'm not sure what we'll end up wearing. but I might just need these shoes regardless!

Semi-Wordless Wednesday

2011-06-08T09:00:00.000-04:00

Fun Photo Shoot with my friend.
5.22.11
Has led to me pursuing this on a grander scale. More to come on that.

There's a First Time for Everything

2011-06-07T20:10:00.000-04:00

Many of you know that I was asked to be a bridesmaid in my college roommates wedding this Fall. You know the phrase "Always a bridesmaid, never a bride"? Well, I fall into the smaller category of having been a bride, but I've never been a bridesmaid. I don't really count being a junior bridesmaid in my aunt's wedding when I was 11. Being a bridesmaid as an adult is a job and also an honor.

On Saturday, the bride, one of her sisters, and her mother drove to my my house to look for bridesmaid dresses near where I live. They live in Grand Rapids, about two hours away. We looked at three area boutiques, and were joined by the bride's future mother-in-law, future sister-in-law (married to the groom's older brother) and the groom's cousin who is also a bridesmaid. We saw some very beautiful options. Another well used phrase began to apply to the situation by the third appointment....."Too many cooks in the kitchen". I think the bride got very overwhelmed.

I started thinking back to when I was planning my own wedding. I looked at bridesmaid dresses with one friend. Narrowed it down to two options, then went back with my sister (maid of honor), and we agreed on one style. Simple. I like simple.

Another contributing factor to the bride's stress is the in-laws, particularly the future sister-in-law. We've known her along time, and their personalities just don't really mesh. Recently, I've been doing some self searching, and I've come to the conclusion that 99% of any problems I have or have had in my life have either been solved or perpetuated by how I've handled the situation and interacted with those involved. Seems simple, right? Well, sometimes when others are "difficult", humans have a tendency to blame their response to the bad behavior on the offender. I figure, if someone is going to treat me poorly, I have an opportunity to either ignore it, or make sure it never happens again. When the offender is a person I know is going to be in my life, I make sure it never happens again. Imagine someone pokes you and pokes you and pokes you.....I respond with a karate chop! Once. Not unlady like, I don't make a scene, I don't scream and yell, I just say something in response to the poking that will ensure it ends. If it doesn't, I punch back harder and harder until the offender realizes that they better lay off. Sometimes you just have to stand up for yourself. My friend needs to do this, because the stress she's feeling is making the experience a bit negative. Also, she needs to stop complaining, because, while I've been doing all this self-searching, I still haven't found a way to tolerate endless complaining without any attempt by the complainer to remedy the situation. I get that people need to vent, but at a certain point, my overwhelming need for "result orientated action" takes over and I can't ignore it.

So the bride has narrowed the options down to a few dresses, all of which are pretty pricey. I can't complain though, because while she wasn't in my wedding, the dresses I chose were Amsale and not inexpensive. Like I said, being in a wedding is a job and it requires a uniform. Luckily, all the options she likes are dresses I also like and would be happy to cut down and wear again. I'm scrappy like that.

So....do I encourage her to get this SIL business straightened out? Should I "punch" back for her??? Probably not....though that's the "big sister" mentality I have because I am a big sister and I guess that carries over to all the people I love. How can I help my friend find a nice balance and enter into married life with a better relationship with her new family? And how much input can I voice on the dress??? Haha! Just kidding, I know she'll make a great choice!

Gloria Guinness

2011-06-06T13:20:00.001-04:00

“Chic? It is absolutely innate – I was born with it. Chic cannot be taught.”-Gloria Guinness to W magazine

Once referred to as "The Ultimate" (as in "the ultimate socialite") by Women's Wear Daily, Gloria Guinness might go down in history as just that. She was a friend of Truman Capote, and featured in the book I recently read about the Black and White Call he threw in 1966, but she was first brought to my attention when I was reading Jackie Style. She was such a fashion trendsetter that she was mentioned several times in that book. I began "googling", and read more about her interesting and jet-set life.

Gloria Guinness was born in Mexico in 1912. She was married four times and rumored to have been a Nazi spy during the second world war. By the time she married her fourth husband, Loel Guinness (a member of the Guinness beer family, yet he made his fortune in real estate and banking), she had two children from her second marriage, and apparently, no valid passport nor was she legally a citizen of any country.

She and Loel had seven residences around the world, including homes in Palm Beach, Paris, Manhattan, Acapulco, and a yacht in the Mediterranean. They also owned three planes. She has been quoted as saying, "So many people think it is difficult keeping all these homes, but I believe it is easier to keep five than one. You can’t possibly spend twelve months at any one place.” Well, wouldn't that be nice?

Gloria also contributed to Harper's Bazaar magazine form 1963 to 1971. In one article, she described the new "ruling class" of 1960s society as "original without being beginners, exhibitionists without being pompous, insolent without being patronizing. Immodest but never vulgar, observant but not inquisitive, immoral but not obscene and notorious but not infamous". How can this group not be completely intriguing?

With C.Z. Guest

Acapulco, 1970

Acapulco, 1966 for Harper's Bazaar

Arriving at Truman's Black and White Ball, November 1966

Before she was 'the ultimate", Gloria still had a perfect fashion sense, even making dresses from large inexpensive scarves. She would simply cut a hole in the center for her head and tie a sash around her waist. She is also famous for starting the capri trend, which was famously worn also by my beloved JBKO. Both women were big fans of white capri pants and wore them well. Her effortless ability and perfect taste was so well known, it also sparked envy among some her her "friends" Babe Paley (another "swan") was so envious of Gloria that one year she informed Gloria that the cruise on her yacht would be very casual and to pack her jewels and evening wear. The first night on the ship, Babe emerged from her cabin in her finest jewels and gown and announced that the party would be attending a formal dinner off the boat. The next year, Gloria packed all her finest clothing and jewelry, only to find that the yacht's guests never left the boat and spent every evening dining casually aboard.

Gloria died in 1980 at the age of 68- too young. She is said to have died of a heart-attack, but, like with much of her life, there were rumors..... this time that she took her own life. I think she will always be remembered for her elegant, effortless style, the interesting articles she penned for Harper's, her beauty- with her regal long neck and sphinx like looks, and especially for what she described in her own words, simply, “having a marvelous time.”

Photo Credit

Summertime

2011-06-02T14:44:00.000-04:00

Gosh, I cannot believe it's already June! I've spent the majority of this week preparing a new display board for our department, and getting all the Summer Reading Program decor in order. The theme this year is "One World, Many Stories". I think it's a really fun theme, and there is a lot we can do with that programming-wise. Summer is always our really busy time of the year, and we typically have over 2000 participants in our Summer Reading Program.

All that hard work lends well to a Summertime cocktail once I'm home! Always a fan of Arnold Palmer's, I was thrilled when Firefly Vodka finally made it to Michigan a few years back. I turned all my friends onto it too. Last Friday, we had my brother and his girlfriend over for taco night. I bought a bottle of Skinny Girl Margarita (great on ice with a splash of bubbly water), and a bottle of Pinnacle Whipped Cream Vodka. I had intended to buy Firefly, but decided to try something new.....

The family owned liquor store near my house always has a wide variety. One of the brothers who runs it is a wonderful resource on all things "spirited". Seriously, this man has a Phd. in alcohol, be it wine, liquor, mico brews...you name it, he can tell you all about it! He has helped us purchase wine as gifts and they are always a hit. He suggested the Whipped Cream Vodka (he knows all I drink is either beer, cider or vodka), so I bought it. It came with a little recipe card. We mixed it with orange pop, and got a creamcicle flavored drink that is to die for! But, be careful, they go down easy! There are other flavors too like Cotton Candy and Root Beer. I'd like to try them all, but that might be dangerous! Haha! Let me know if you try this and how you like it!

Shopping

2011-05-27T12:57:00.000-04:00

B and I have lived in our condo since April 2008, and we are finally getting to the point where it's almost completely "decorated". We have yet to renovate the bathroom and would like to build a new patio. Both the bathroom and the ~~slab of dirty concrete~~ patio are ~~disgusting~~ in need of work. We have, however, furnished the place. We now need to "decorate". So....tomorrow, my mother and I are heading out to finish the house. I need lamps (to replace the Target ones that have served us well), a mirror for my nautical guest room), new garbage cans, a bench for the guest room, picture frames and, in general, more tchatchkes, because can we ever have enough?

In an ideal world, I'd be bringing home a mirror like this:

Photo Credit

And the bench might prove to be a challenge to find....I'd love a smaller version of this:

Photo Credit

We are hitting HomeGoods, Tuesday Morning, TJ Maxx, Kirkland, and Target. I found a lamp at Target that I love.....I plan to fill it with sand and shells purchased in Naples. I'm very much looking forward to a fun a productive weekend! I also hope to finish the book I'm reading so I can start researching Truman's Swans....Should be fun!

Semi-Wordless Wednesday

2011-05-25T09:03:00.003-04:00

Sleeping Bear Dunes
1986?

Party of the Century

2011-05-24T20:19:00.000-04:00

I'm reading this book right now. It is inspiring many future posts.

I'm planning to write a series of posts featuring the women Truman referred to as "his swans". These women were definitely society insiders in the 40s, 50s, and 60s and led very interesting lives. I hope to start the series this week.

Today, however, I'm going to be short and sweet. I've had a rough few days. I burned my hand Sunday night on a hot skillet (don't even ask...it was pretty careless of me, and why we call it an "accident"), woke with a migraine yesterday and spent the day resting. The only time I left was to see my derm. I won't even go into why I was there, but it wasn't pretty. I'm feeling better today, but I'm breaking in a new pair of shoes, so I'm not really feeling very "chatty" (such an awful problem, I know. I lead a rough life indeed)....and believe me, "the swans" deserve me at my very best and most brilliant!

Please enter the OPI Giveaway Cool Gal is hosting right now! You can click here or on the button in my sidebar.

Winner Winner Chicken Dinner

2011-05-19T15:43:00.000-04:00

This morning I drew the winner for the Shabby Apple Giveaway.

And the winner is:

Karleen from A Year of Change, you're the lucky girl! I don't see an email address on your blog, so please email me with your mailing address, and I'll pass it along to Shabby Apple!

Semi-Wordless Wednesday

2011-05-18T08:47:00.004-04:00

Sisters......

5.11.11
Sunset.
Naples Beach Hotel.
Naples, FL

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Such a great week!

2011-05-17T20:22:00.000-04:00

Naples was, per usual, pure heaven. My trip was everything I'd hoped- sun, fun, relaxing, and I really treasured the time with my sister. She lives in Jacksonville, FL, where she is attending college. We see each other only once or twice a year. It was so great to spend some QT with her.

The highlight of my trip was Thursday at the beach. I was there with my sister and my dad. We decided to walk to the pier to get an ice cream cone. There were lots of people hanging out of the pier looking over the edge, at this:

There were 9 manatee! And they were so close to shore that some ~~a holes~~ people were actually swimming up to them. I got pretty mad about that, but soon the beach patrol showed up and asked the ~~a hole morons~~ people to please leave the endangered manatee alone. Not to mention, these guys weigh a literal TON....They're kind creatures, but they could drown a person or injure one anyway.

I've only every seen one other manatee in Everglade City, FL when I was a kid. I saw a glimpse of his back. Seeing so many this close was one of the coolest experiences of my life! It was sad to see that some of them had scars on their backs from boats. I see people on the their boats in "No Wake" zones just speeding along, and I wonder, "What's the freakin hurry????" I mean seriously? You're on a boat...this is a leisurely activity....simply owning a boat indicates to me that you're a person with leisure time...what's the rush???? People baffle me.

When I'm in Florida, I try to take time to appreciate the beauty. The ocean is humbling. The trees and the flowers are so beautiful, and the wildlife is so unique and magical. I always come home rejuvenated from time spent with my loved ones, quiet time reading or day dreaming on the beach, and time spent near the sea. Seeing those manatee was a once in a lifetime moment. The cell phone picture is all I have to show you, but I'll remember it always in my mind and treasure it.

Semi-Wordless Wednesday

2011-05-11T09:33:00.006-04:00

Corkscrew Swap Sanctuary. 11/2009

The two reasons Florida is in my heart forever: my dad and The Everglades.

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Exciting Giveaway

2011-05-05T11:25:00.002-04:00

Before I fly off to sunny Naples tomorrow, I wanted to bring some sunshine to you all in the form of a little Spring Giveaway! I was recently contacted by Shabby Apple, a wonderful online vintage boutique, featuring women's dresses, little girl's dresses, accessories, maternity dresses, and more!

Shabby Apple has generously offered my readers a coupon code for 10% off their entire site! Just use the code: herhighnessofcute10off at checkout. They have also offered a fantastic giveaway....drum roll please....a women's dress! I was able to choose which dress to offer you all, and when I stumbled across the San Gabriel dress, I knew it was the one. Lately, I've been really into military inspired looks, and this dress has a little of that feel.

I love the gold buttons, and the cinched waist. I think this silhouette will be flattering on everyone! I hope you like it!

Here are the guidelines:
1. You must a U.S. resident to qualify for this giveaway. So sorry my friends in Canada and abroad! I'm sure you all can still use the coupon code!
2. Leave a comment for one entry.
3. For a second entry, please "like" Shabby Apple on Facebook. Just let me know if you've "liked" them in your comment.

I will leave this giveaway open while I'm enjoying my vacation. I will draw a winner on Thursday, May 19, so please have your comments "in" by midnight on the 18th.

As always, I will try to post from Naples, but I never seem to find the time! I promise to get some pictures and lots of freckles! Please spread the word about the giveaway!

Semi-Wordless Wednesday

2011-05-04T17:02:00.000-04:00

The feel of sand on my toes....

Soon, very very soon....

I'm a wife now?

2011-05-03T20:26:00.001-04:00

I've been married a year and a half, and it still sometimes comes as shock to me that I'm a wife. I don't mean that I "forget" I'm married, but being a wife is much more than simply being married. I try to support my husband and do things to make him happy....when it's on my mind. Other times, his feelings aren't really a consideration to me! That is terrible sounding!!! Let me explain. I consider his feelings when I make plans that take me away from him, or make plans for the two of us. I consider his feeling when I get up earlier in the morning and am trying to be very quiet so he can enjoy sleeping in an extra hour.

But when I'm grocery shopping, I sometimes forget that I have this other person living with me! I buy what I want for snacks and lunches, and I always have a list of items needed for dinner meals. I buy him lunch items too, but I'm not really one to think outside the box. I forget that I'm a wife shopping for my little family of two!

Lately, he has been pointing out that "there's nothing to just eat." No snacks for him. Yet, my beloved Blue Chips are always stocked, and when he makes Costco trips he brings me new things to try and always makes sure we have my favorite chocolate covered acai berries (if you've not had them, you MUST!). What, might I ask, is my problemo? Am I that selfish that I just put the same food in the buggy for him each time I go shopping without giving this man a second thought? This thoughtful man that literally lives by the motto "Happy Wife, Happy Life" everyday? He thinks of me from dawn til dusk, and I throw an Easy Mac his way everyday for lunch?

Thing is, I don't know what else to buy the man! And I need help! He isn't picky (some random things, but nothing too serious), but making a sandwich isn't happening at 7:30 am. I'm not going to make it anyway, and neither is he. So what can I buy him for lunch? And what "food just to eat" can I provide him? I need some help. What do you and your husbands/boyfriends/roommates take for lunch? What kinds of snacks do you have lying around the house? If you're a mom, what do your kids love to eat? I can eat the same five things everyday, but my husband is not like that at all! We need variety for him! I'm adopting the motto 'A way to a man's heart is through his stomach", and I need some advice!

Old Rules...

2011-04-27T08:22:00.000-04:00

On Monday, Cool Gal over at It's Just the World I Know, posted a excerpt from a 1950s Home Ec. book entitled, How to be a Good Wife. The comments are hilarious, and it really shows how much has changed in the culture of this country in 60 years. Things are different!

After reading her blog, I headed over to Welcome to the Drapers. This is a really cute blog based on Mad Men, and written from the perspective of Betty Draper. How ironic that she too posted a list of "rules":

10 Rules for Ladies

1. Ladies don't wear white shoes before Easter or after Labor Day.

2. Ladies don't chew gum.

3. Ladies don't walk in public holding a cigarette.

4. Ladies don't drink beer from a can.

5. Ladies don't wear diamonds during daytime. (Pearls are fine.)

6. Ladies don't wear more than 13 items at once.

7. Ladies don't telephone men. (Hence the term gentlemen callers.)

8. Ladies are gay, not grumpy.

9. Ladies listen.

10.Ladies who don't abide by the rules, can't expect men to be gentlemen.

When compared to the How to be a Good Wife excerpt, these rules seem to stand the test of time. Well, perhaps ladies can be a little grumpy from time to time in 2011, though no one likes a whiner!

My favorite of the "rules" is #10. I can't begin to tell you all how many times I've been in a situation when a friend is complaining about a guy. This was more common in and right after college, but still occurs with many of my single friends. They complain that the guy they like isn't treating them with much respect. After digging deeper, it often seems that, while there is no real excuse to be a dirt bag guy, my friends are often behaving in such a way that puts the guy in the position to disrespect them. I'm sure this goes far beyond drinking beer from a can!!! ;) They are way too available!

I think these seemingly "old-fashioned" rules set a certain standard for behavior that is a wonderful jumping off point. I'd love to expand beyond simply not "telephoning a man" (#7). Not only should you not telephone him, don't DON'T text!!!! Please, do not text, especially after drinking! Don't text back if he texts you after 11:00pm. And really, if you can exercise the self-control, don't pick up when he calls 8 out of 10 times. And wait ~~a while~~ an eternity before returning the call, if you return it all. Once you're in a committed relationship, this game playing is silly and will start fights, I'm sure. However, when you're first getting to know a guy, less is always more- less availability that is.

And as far as the gum goes....I have to agree with Mrs. Draper's rules. My dad always used to refer to a person who was a little "rough around the edges" as a "gum chewer", and that has never left me! Eat a mint, or chew the gum for a minute or two in private. There is nothing worse than someone chomping gum in your face, is there?

Easter Wreath

2011-04-26T11:21:00.000-04:00

If you follow me on Twitter, then you might recall that my husband surprised me with the most adorable Easter Wreath last week. I was shocked to find out he bought it at CVS! Who knew CVS had such such decorations?

Here it is on our front door. I tied the purple ribbon around the wreath because it looked odd hanging right on the hook. I really need to make a Spring/Summer wreath. I've been meaning to do this for a few years now. I made a Fall and Christmas wreath the year we moved in. This one is so cute, I think I'll leave it up a few more days, and when I'm back from Naples, I'll head over to Michael's and get the supplies for a Summer wreath. I'm really not very "crafty", but wreaths are so easy to make!

Easter Cake

2011-04-25T19:44:00.002-04:00

On Good Friday I set out to make the Easter desserts. The coffee cake was breeze, so I made that first. Then I made the chocolate layer cake. I decided to use a recipe from a cookbook that was recommended to me. The batter tasted a little bitter, but I baked it anyway. It was really bitter! Not sure why. I followed the recipe exactly. I tossed the cake out and looked through my cookbooks. I have a baking book from the mid-70s. I decided to try the chocolate cake from that book. The recipe was much simpler than the first one I made, so it took less time. The batter tasted great, and the cakes baked up perfectly!

The Swiss Meringue Butter Cream was not nearly as difficult to make as I had thought it would be! It was simple, but precise. And it tasted so good. I guess 5 sticks of butter will yield a delicious frosting!

Here is the final product!

I was very happy with the result! B helped me to frost it, because I have a bit of a heavy hand. I was nervous that the cake crumbs would mix in with the frosting. Once it was frosted, we added the green coconut and the chocolate eggs. I'm so glad that I decided to try this, because I learned a few new things about baking, and also that I can make a really pretty and delicious cake! The in-laws were impressed. Now I've got to start planning B's birthday cake! I have until June!

How do you feel...

2011-04-20T14:55:00.000-04:00

about these sunglasses?

They're by Kate Spade. I tried them on in Chicago and the consensus was that they're too cat-eyes and too retro. I'm still thinking about them, and I think I want them.

Easter Dessert

2011-04-16T16:44:00.001-04:00

My In-Laws have asked me to bring dessert for the family's Easter celebration this year. We are having dinner at my husband's grandmother's home on Holy Saturday. I'm glad we're celebrating Saturday so that B and I are free to go to Mass Easter Sunday and then brunch. We did this last year too, and we really enjoyed the day. We hope to make it a tradition for our little family (though the kitty will just have to be there in spirit!).

Last Summer, we went to the Irish Hills with B's family, and I made a nice French Toast Casserole (Gosh, I sound like my grandma...everything was always a "nice" _____. Food, especially was always very "nice". She'd make a "Nice breakfast with some really nice toast and nice jelly". Haha. Guess I've picked that one up!). My MIL made me laugh because as B and I were preparing the casserole the night before we planned to eat it, she comes up to me in the kitchen and whispers that no one else's kids brought anything (we're mostly adults with a few teenagers), and she was very proud to claim me as "hers". She said, "Oh yeah, that one's mine, and she brought a delicious breakfast!" She and I get along well, but that secret compliment just made me smile, because I was happy to make her feel proud of us as a couple and me as her DIL.

Needless to say, I really want to impress with my dessert next weekend! I've decided to make two desserts, because the family is huge. I'll make the New York Style Crumb Cake from Martha Stewart (Living magazine March 2011) I made to take to work as a "thank you" to everyone who pitched in when I was out with my hip surgery. It is delicious, simple, and serves many. If you try this, think cutting the crumb topping in half, as there was way too much when I made the full recipe. I plan to cut it for next weekend.

B suggested I make something chocolate as the other dessert, so I'm making a cake. An Easter chocolate cake! This is test my decorating "skills", and I use that term loosely, to their fullest! I'm making a basic chocolate layer cake with Swiss Meringue Buttercream frosting. I plan to decorate it with coconut dyed green on top and Cadbury Mini-Eggs. I found this picture as inspiration:

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Cute, huh? I then googled "Easter Cakes" and even more inspiration! Someone even made little cake ball "pop" that are yellow chick-a-dees and some that are tiny decorated Easter Eggs! Kappa Prep could preobably whip some of those up, but I fear they are beyond me. So cute!

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I do hope I can pull off some version of the above cake though! Or who knows? Maybe I'll be inspired and do something even cooler?

She always comes up with the cutest things!

2011-04-14T12:17:00.000-04:00

In Chicago, I tried on this hat:

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I was goofing around, but when it's worn properly, it is really really cute!

It's also $75. I might buy this if it goes on sale, because B and I are going to Cancun this Winter. However, it might also be cute in Naples next month.....decisions decisions!

Chicago

2011-04-12T20:18:00.001-04:00

I should start by telling you all that Running of the Brides was a major fail. We decided Thursday night that we were not going to get there at 7:00am and wait in line. Instead, we got there about 9:00am. Lots of dresses were still available, but it was a little sad. Girls were hoarding dresses, and would only give something up if you had a "trade" for them. I was a little confused as to how I could "trade" something I do not own? And does a bride really need to stack 50 dresses next to her "changing area" (which was really just wherever in the store)? Once you've tried it on and you don't like it, send it back!

Aside from the terrible manners of most the brides, and the selection wasn't really what we were looking for. Most dresses were marked down to $300-$500 from about $1200. They were pretty, but very generic. I'm sure some girls found their "dream dress", but we did not. I think the chaotic atmosphere was a turn off, and I couldn't imagine trying to find my wedding gown in that environment!

Bottom line, if you are on a strict budget and aren't very picky, you might find something wonderful at Running of the Brides. If you do not fall into that category, skip it!

We went to another sample sale on Saturday morning. Designer gowns from $999 to $1400. Some were beautiful. Some were destroyed. AEH found one Vera Wang dress she liked but even if it was restored, mended and cleaned, it might have still looked rough. Some girls, however, found great deals on dresses that weren't too terribly worn, and left beaming.

Friday afternoon we went to Ultimate Bride on Oak St. AEH called ahead and asked if she could try on samples, as most dresses there are $5,000-$20,000. The consultant we worked with was amazing (I'd love her job!!!). She showed us some gorgeous samples that had been meticulously kept. AEH found a beautiful Rivini gown from the Fall 2010 collection. After going to one more boutique in Lincoln Park Saturday afternoon, we returned to Ultimate bride and she bought the Rivini! The consultant said she had two brides ask for a similar dress, but she kept it hidden away for AEH. I think she knew it was "the one".

The consultant told us that there is really no science to how they discount the samples, but that we must have stumbled upon a "good day in the office" because AEH's gown was 60% off. The sample had been tried on only a few times, fits like a glove and was a steal! She only needs it taken up about an inch, and it needs to bustle added.

I don't want to post pictures of the dress, or her in it. I wasn't very secretive with my own gown, and she's pretty laid back, but I wouldn't want to post it without her permission. I will happily post pictures after the wedding though, because this dress is a piece of art!

Here is a fun photo of me infront of the ALA (American Library Association) building in Chicago for your viewing pleasure:

I'm such a geek, but that's just how I roll. :)

Running of the Brides

2011-04-07T10:49:00.001-04:00

This afternoon, I'm leaving work early to head to Chicago to spend the weekend with my KD sisters and roomies from college. My friend AEH is getting married this Fall, and I'm a bridesmaid! Friday morning, AEH, her sister and I will be attending the Running of the Brides in Chicago. BKQ, who lives in Wrigleyville will be joining us in the afternoon after she finishes up with work. We also have appointments at several other Chicago Bridal Boutiques on Saturday.

When AEH asked me if I was interested in going to Running of the Brides, I had no idea what it was. So I googled......

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I sincerely hope we do not run into the above woman. Wow. WOW.

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If you look through Google Images, there are more pictures for this event, and it looks intense! We figure we will get there early, but not at 6:00am. Some people actually camp out. I found when wedding dress shopping, a stressful environment doesn't always allow for the best decision to be made. It will be such an adventure either way, and who knows, she might find the perfect gown! If not, I'm sure we will find may options on Saturday, and maybe even see some bridesmaid dresses.

I am so honored that AEH asked me to be a part of her wedding party. I've only been in one other wedding (aside from my own). When I was 11, my aunt had be as a junior bridesmaid when she got married. This is my first time being a bridesmaid for a friend, and it should be such a fun Summer and Fall celebrating!

I actually graduated from High School with AEH's fiance. She met him at college. The funniest thing about it is that he lived in her town when he was a kid and they were in the same second grade class. He recognized her at a party. She thought he was nuts, but when she called her mom to look in her grade school yearbook, sure enough, he was in her class! Such a small world! The wedding will be great because people we've known since High School will be there as well as college, and we've all stayed in touch.

Southern Plate

2011-04-05T19:23:00.006-04:00

I can't believe I haven't posted in a week! Honestly, I think I've been a little down in the dumps lately. I'm ready for Spring and the fact that it's taking so long to get here is hard for me. Spring arrived rather early last year and I was spoiled by that.

Also, I've been working a lot because I'm heading to Chicago this weekend with my college roomies. I am happy to report that I'll be bringing my iPhone with me, because my husband was able to replace the screen! I am so releived. I'm still using my old phone until the case I ordered for the iPhone arrives. I bought a very sturdy case. :)

Most of my readers know how much I love the South and how much I love to cook. I've been obsessed with a couple recipes I've made recently that I found on a great blog, Southern Plate. Christy is an absolute doll, and offers her readers wonderful Southern recipes that are mindful of the real world. She is a fan of using what you already have on hand and substituting in necessary. I got her book from my library, and it's just beautiful! She tells stories to go with the recipes, which makes the whole cookbook so personal. I've made her Chicken & Dumplings recipe three times already. My husband loves it, and I made it for my family while I was in Naples over the holidays. They, too, gobbled it up. Last week, I woke up early and made her beef stew in my crock pot. She's on twitter, and I asked her about substituting red skins for the russet potatoes. She responded right away and told me to use whatever I had. I also just chopped an onion instead of buying pearl onions, and added some celery I had in my fridge. It was delicious! I was also thrilled to find Dale's sauce at the grocery store across the street from my house. I wasn't sure if I'd be able to find it in Michigan. Funny thing, Dale's is made in Birmingham, AL. I live in Birmingham, MI. When I first glanced at the label, I thought I had some other sauce called Dale's because I thought it said "Birmingham, MI"! I thought, "This can't be right. Does the company bottle here in MI???" Haha! Then I re-read the label and felt pretty lame.

Another very good slow-cooker recipe I've made is the Cheesy Chicken and Rice. I made this when I was still recovering my hip surgery, and my husband has requested that I make it again for him to eat while I'm in Chicago.

So head on over to Southern Plate, follow Christy on Twitter and Facebook and get the book from your library. You'll just love this lady!

What makes a style icon?

2011-03-29T12:07:00.006-04:00

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Yesterday, while at work, I noticed a book on the "New Books" shelf: Everyday Icon: Michelle Obama and the Power of Style. I had a pretty strong reaction to this book. It's been bothering me since. Initially, I was upset by the use of the word "icon". I think the word is overused. And I thought it was misused here. This morning, I looked up the definition of "icon":

icon, ikon [ˈaɪkɒn] n

1. (Christianity / Eastern Church (Greek & Russian Orthodox)) a representation of Christ, the Virgin Mary, or a saint, esp one painted in oil on a wooden panel, depicted in a traditional Byzantine style and venerated in the Eastern Church

2. an image, picture, representation, etc.

3. a symbol resembling or analogous to the thing it represents

4. a person regarded as a sex symbol or as a symbol of a belief or cultural

5. (Electronics & Computer Science / Computer Science) a pictorial representation of a facility available on a computer system, that enables the facility to be activated by means of a screen cursor rather than by a textual instruction [from Latin, from Greek eikōn image, from eikenai to be like]

After reading the definition of the word, I will concede that, yes, Michelle Obama is an "icon". She is a symbol of a belief and a cultural movement. I can agree to that. Without getting into politics, this administration is self proclaimed "hope" and "change", and all those affiliated with it, represent this belief and this movement. Okay. Now let's get to the point. This book isn't about Michelle Obama as an "icon" representing the movement and beliefs of her husband's administration. This book is about her fashion. So I looked up the definition of "fashion icon":

fashion icon n (Clothing & Fashion)

a person or thing that is very well known as being highly fashionable

Now I know why I had such a strong reaction to this book..... Let me preface this next argument, I don't think Michelle Obama wants to be a fashion icon. I think the media is trying to make her into one. And I think it's annoying. I bet she finds it a bit annoying especially when she doing all sorts of other relevant work.

So I started to research the book a bit and found this book excerpt from The Today Show. If you have time read it, and let me know your thoughts. I think it's a stretch at best. The book's author explains that American women have spent their lives sacrificing fashion and style because they are subscribing to "the false idea that style and substance are mutually exclusive". Seriously? And it took Michelle Obama wearing J.Crew to help this generation of American women realize that they can be both fashionable and gasp smart?!?!?

Another excerpt I found amusing:

"As the generation led by the new First Lady consolidates and extends the gains of its predecessors, American women still wrestle with the question of appearance. We worry whether paying attention to what we wear will automatically entitle people to disregard what we say or do. We wonder whether the wrong outfit will violate some cultural no-fly zone."

Alright. I do not wrestle with my appearance or what being well dressed says about me. I know what it says. It says that I have enough self respect to want to look nice every time I leave my house. It says I have enough respect for my boss and co-workers to look nice and well put together when I come to work. It most importantly says that I take myself, my position in life, my job, and whatever it is I am verbally saying to another person very seriously, so I put in some effort to convey that with my appearance. I am not worried that people will pay attention to my appearance, I'm worried they won't! I am fully confident that I can pay attention to what I wear and not be disregarded by others. I actually think people are capable of taking me seriously while I look like I care about what I'm wearing! Mind blowing, I know....

This author is really reaching for some relevance to a book that is just plain unnecessary. One reason it's unnecessary is that Michelle Obama has only been First lady half a term! Maybe we should see what else she wears? I could also write a thesis on why she isn't really very fashionable at all, and why she is certainly no fashion icon. She is not blazing a trail in the fashion world. I'll admit that is a matter of personal taste and opinion. She may be another girl's epitome of fashion genius (I doubt that, but it's possible), she just isn't mine. I think though, I can say with some authority that Mrs. Obama is not "using her self-possessed style to set the tone and to define a new etiquette of power." She just isn't. I don't care how many books and articles are written on the topic, it does not make something false true.

***UPDATED TO ADD***

After reading some comments, I'd like to add that I really tried to keep my personal politics out of this post. I'm sorry if it came across that I don't think Michelle Obama is a fashion icon because I'm not a Democrat. I completely agree that good style is in the eye of the beholder. This is just my opinion. My main point is that I think this book is a real stretch because I don't feel like this particular woman is redefining how American women dress and view fashion in their lives.

Material Things

2011-03-28T17:25:00.001-04:00

I can't say that I'm not a materialistic person. I kind of am. I struggle with this quality in myself all the time. On Thursday morning, I dropped my iPhone on the hardwood floor of my house, and the face ~~shattered~~ cracked. I cried for a minute. I've cracked the screen once before. I ordered a new screen online and my husband was able to fix it. I've already ordered a new screen for this one, but the damage is a bit worse.

Over the weekend, I found myself sinking into a bad mood because of the broken iPhone. I reminded myself that it's only a "thing", and I shouldn't be so upset. That is when it hit me why I'm so upset. It's not because I broke a material item that I love, but also that can be replaced. It's because I like owning nice things, and I like having everything in good condition. I like things to be perfect! I was next hit with the realization that I have problems. Perfection doesn't exist, yet I strive for it everyday. When things break, or more accurately, I break them, I lose my mind a little bit. I need things to be "perfect" in order to feel good. The fact that I broke the phone is also problematic because I have no one to blame but myself. I am not careful in my movements. I break things often. Then I get angry with myself because things aren't "perfect".

I'm just putting this out there because I'm need to vent. I know that realistically, I'll always be a perfectionist. I also know that I will never be perfect and it's silly to try. This will be a lifelong struggle for me. I'm just glad I had a place to let it out today, because being in a bad mood over a cell phone is almost disgusting considering what else is going on in the world. However, my world is feeling lopsided right now, and I guess that makes this relevant.

Jackie Style

2011-03-23T13:37:00.008-04:00

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I've been reading another biography on Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis recently. I'm almost through it, and it's a great read! This book, Jackie Style, covers JBKO's style as it evolved over the years. As a young woman, through Camelot and Onassis to finally, her look when she worked in publishing (Hello Valentino!). She certainly set the standard in women's fashion, but knew when to leave one look behind and change her style.

I am now on the hunt for a classic Jackie style suit. 3/4 length sleeves and a slim cut skirt. Something like this:

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Jackie's style was truly timeless. Like many of you, I'm attracted to Lilly dresses, Tory Burch, and Kate Spade for their timeless and classic styles. Much of what Kate Spade designs looks like it arrived in a very chic time capsule from 1962. There are some vintage stores in my area, but I find many of them to feel like a Salvation Army. or extremely expensive. So I wonder, do you wear vintage? There is a fine line between looking timeless and classic and looking like you're wearing a costume. Please share if any of you have purchased vintage and how you wear it.

If you're interested in this book, you can probably get it at your library, or here at Amazon.

Raylan Givens

2011-03-17T10:18:00.001-04:00

I'll be the first to admit that I get celebrity crushes all the time. More accurately, I get crushes on characters in film and television shows. For the longest time my number one love was Jason Bourne. Well, he has been usurped. Big time.

Meet Raylan Givens:

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Or as I like to call him, my other husband. I seriously love this man. I love this character so much that if I ever have a son, Raylan is my first choice name. And I know my kid will be the only Raylan within 600 miles of Detroit, and that is ok with me. You all know I'd love move South, and far far away from this ~~hell hole~~ "town" someday anyway.

Have I ever told you all that my favorite girl's name is Reagan? Could imagine twins? Raylan and Reagan? :)

Bon Voyage Sissy

2011-03-15T19:49:00.004-04:00

Tomorrow morning at 8:30 am, my sister will be embarking on the biggest journey of her life. She is moving to China for 6 months! I am a complete basket case of emotions. Mainly, I'm in awe of her. She is doing something very different, taking a chance that I probably never would or could do. I had trouble moving 1.5 hours from home for college for Pete's sake..... She is moving half way around the world! Her biggest fear is that she's going to love it so much that she'll want to stay on longer! I told her that this is her time, and if she loves it, she should stay as long as she wants.

She showed me photos of the Old French Concession neighborhood where she'll be living, and of the apartment she'll be sharing with her very best friend who has been living there almost 4 years. Everything looks and sounds like the writing for a true adventure and growing experience. She will be teaching English and tutoring.

I'm so proud of my sister because she is taking a really big chance. She is exploring the world and also herself. She's testing her limits and leaving her comfort zone. When she was first deciding to go, I think she felt scared to do something on her own. Not in the sense that she will be alone in China, away from our family, but that she isn't following in my footsteps or in anyone else's. She forging her own path. That takes some guts!

We all have a journey in life. I truly believe God has a plan for each human on this earth. Sometimes it's so clear, other times it catches you off guard. And once in a while, you can take a chance and put yourself in a new environment, and it'll all come together in the most amazing way! I doubt my sister ever thought moving to China and living there would fall right into place for her life, at this time, but it has, and I think it'll be just right.

Bon Voyage Sissy....I am so proud of you.

March

2011-03-12T16:40:00.001-05:00

Most of you know that I work in the Children's Department of a library about 30 minutes from my home. March is Michigan's Reading Month, and I was asked by the daughter of a co-worker if I would be able to come into the school where she works to read to the kindergarten classes. She also asked that I explain to the kids what i do at my job, and why reading is important to me at work and at home. I figured that in the spirit of Lent and adding some service to my life I decided to visit the school on March 25th.

Now I'm trying to decide on two or three books to read to the class. SO, all you mom's out there, what were your kindergartner's favorite books? I'm taking suggestions. I loved Madeline more than anything else, but I think I'd rather read something that the kids think is funny, and less female specific. Right now, I'm planning to read Click, Clack, Moo Cows That Type and Chicka Chicka Boom Boom.

In other news, I'm happy to report that I did indeed purchase the LV Delightful bag I had been saving for and wanting for quite some time. I purchased it from the LV boutique at Saks. I was able to earn double points on my Saks card. I was so happy to carry that big brown LV bag all around the mall! Actually, my husband did the carrying and someone made a comment about how lucky I am that my husband bought me something from LV. he was quick to tell them that I had saved the money myself. I was ready to let him take the credit! I might not have ever saved the money if he didn't pretty much support and entertain us! LOL! So it is a gift from both of us!

I also bought a pair of high glass black Hunter boots. I think it was time I invested in a pair because a) they're classic and I love the looks of them and b) I live in the tundra and it's still freaking snowing here!!!! I needed a pick me up that is Winter related. I also bought the cable knit socks. Luckily they're also fleece and very warm. I wasn't sure what to expect.

Are you dreaming of Spring yet??? I cannot wait!

With Lent....

2011-03-09T16:32:00.003-05:00

comes sacrifice. B and I are once again giving up fast food. This is more of a sacrifice for him I think, so I've decided to also give up candy. I've never been a huge candy eater, but over the last couple years, I've become truly addicted to Sour Patch Kids. Gosh, I love them! When I was recovering form surgery, I ate SO many!

A few years ago, I gave up shopping, and while it was very challenging for me, it was really rewarding. We've also given up pop. THAT was super tough. I also want to add something over the next 40 days. I've offered to volunteer at the ballet school where I attend classes. I can't dance again for several more months, but I still want to contribute to the Spring performance in some way. My teacher has some great ideas to get me involved. Hopefully, I'll be of some help to her too.

I'm brainstorming some other ideas to bring me closer to God. One idea I've had is to say the rosary at least once a week. I converted to Catholicism in 2007 (I was a Lutheran all my life), so saying the Rosary is not something I'm accustomed with. Mu Grandmother said it almost everyday. I'm also going to make an effort to be more patient with my family. We can all improve with that, I think.

Are you giving anything up? Or adding some type of service or devotion? I'd love to hear how you plan to use the next 40 days to bring you closer to God.

Loss

2011-03-07T19:18:00.001-05:00

My grandmother passed away on February 9th. Saturday was her Memorial Mass and luncheon. Some readers might recall that my Grandfather, her husband of over 60 years, died over Labor Day weekend. That feels like too much loss, but then again it seems fitting. 62 years together? How could they really spend more than 6 months apart?

I shouldn't say that I'm not sad, because I am sad. But, I'm not overcome with sorrow. My grandma was ready. She was fearless. She knew where she was going. She had zero doubt. Zero. Such faith isn't something a person sees everyday in such a raw form. Sure, I have faith everyday, in little things. But faith like that? Faith that overcomes fear, especially the fear to die, which is probably many people's greatest fear of all, is, quite simply, remarkable. And dignified. And inspiring.

My grandmother was a dentist. February 9th is Saint Apollonia's day, the Patron Saint of Dentistry. My grandmother was the first American woman to be inducted into Omicron Kappa Upsilon, the National Dental Honor Society. How fitting that she passed away on the day dedicated to the Patron Saint of Dentistry, a career she loved.

I learned so much from my grandmother. If you are or were lucky enough to be close with your grandparents, I'm sure you learned so much from them too. Grandparents are special like that. They are a little more laid back than our parents, perhaps it's their wisdom that allows them to be more laid back. They know it'll all be okay.

My grandmother was a very proud woman. She taught me pride. Not the sinful, gloating kind, but the quiet kind. The kind that lies deep inside my soul and reminds me that I come from "good stock", that I know exactly who I am, and I can handle anything. She also taught me to cook. Even as recently as early February, I'd call her and share a new recipe I'd just tried, or get her opinion on how to tweak an old favorite. She would joke that she worked all her life so I could do anything I wanted in life, and all I want to do is bake pies for my husband! Only, she loved that about me. She was this accidental feminist, blazing a trail for professional women everywhere, only she loved being a mother most of all. Luckily she was able to do both. It was our little secret that baking pies for our husbands was really the most rewarding of all.

Grandma, I miss you everyday, but you are in my heart. You would have loved the Memorial Mass. You would have loved the luncheon (the food was delicious, by the way). And you would have been so proud of me, because I truly took the time to celebrate your life. How could I not? It was so very well lived.

R.S.V.P

2011-03-03T10:06:00.000-05:00

These are the shoes I bought to wear with my B to B Dress. They match most of my wardrobe though! I wonder why I waited this long to purchase a pair of navy heels?

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Shoes are from 6pm.

More Elizabeth McKay

2011-03-02T10:28:00.002-05:00

Elizabeth McKay is having a terrific sale right now. Enter the code WINTER at checkout and you'll get 50% off your order. I tested it on the sale items, and the 50% off applied there too.

As I've mentioned previously, I've had my eye on the B to B Dress for some time. The design is just beautifully classic, while still offering a little "pop" with the low-cut back. I ordered it in navy, and bought some navy peep-toe heels from 6pm.

Do you love it?

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I think this dress is a great addition to my wardrobe. I wish I could own everything Elizabeth McKay designs! By the way, If you're ever in Naples, FL, check out Tickled Pink (off Third St. in Olde Naples, across from C. Orrico)! Such a darling boutique, and they carry many designers including Elizabeth McKay.

Love the Red Carpet

2011-02-28T17:49:00.000-05:00

Red Carpet season is kind of like Fantasy Football for women. This year's Oscars brought more hits than misses in my opinion. Even some of the "worst dressed" weren't that bad. Which is good!

My favorites are:
Hailee Steinfeld in Marchesa-

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I loved her in True Grit, and I've loved all her Red carpet choices this season. The best part is that she helped design this gorgeous dress, and it is age appropriate. She has looked like a beautiful 14 year old all season, and it's so refreshing! I think we are going to see more of her in the future, she's so talented.

Gwyneth Paltrow in Calvin Klein-

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Some critics thought this look fell flat, but I liked it and here is why: Gwenyth always looks best with her signature straight blonde hair, and she always looks great in Calvin Klein. In the 90s she wore a lot of Calvin Klein, and she really looked so timeless and always chic.

Mila Kunis in Elie Saab Haute Couture-

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Mila is stunningly beautiful, and she wears fashion well. She has also looked lovely all season, and I think she nailed it last night. She has the right body type for this neckline, and it looks pretty. Not everyone can wear this style, it looks like it was made just for her petite frame.

Anne Hathaway-

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I loved all her 8 looks, but the blue dress on the left was my favorite. I don't know the designer, but I love Anne in navy. She wears blue often, and it's my favorite color, so I'm always a fan.

Sandra Bullock, Halle Berry, Jennifer Hudson (wowza!), and Jennifer Lawrence (also in Calvin Klein. Love him!) all looked beautiful last night! Red was certainly a popular color.

Back Amongst the Living

2011-02-23T12:08:00.002-05:00

I'm finally feeling normal! I'm back at work today, though still using crutches for the rest of the week. I hope soon, I'll be able to hit the gym and do the stationary bike. I'm starting to get restless!

I've not blogged these last couple weeks, because I've been less than inspired. When I don't go anywhere or do much of anything, I guess I don't have much to blog about. I did discover a couple things while I was home resting.

I watched a bunch of Hitchcock movies, and I've decided I like them. Some better than others, but they were enjoyable and I can see how Hitchcock's work has inspired many modern movies.

I also stumbled upon a website- 6pm. I'm probably the last person to know about this site, but I'm glad I finally do! I ordered some new shoes at discounted prices, and am very happy with the product and customer service. I also got a pair for my husband and he loves them. He really needed new black dress shoes.

I'm really looking forward to getting back into my routine. It was nice being home and resting. I loved it actually, but I'm a creature of habit, and I start to get nutty if I'm not on a set routine, or at least active. Fingers crossed that I'll continue improving!

Recuperating

2011-02-06T16:56:00.000-05:00

The surgery went well on Friday, and I've just been taking it easy the last couple days. When I first woke up in the recovery room Friday, my first thought was that I'd made a huge mistake because the pain was so great. The nurse injected some sort of pain medication into my IV, and I immediately felt ~~high as a kite~~ much better. So Friday was kinda fun for me actually! I felt great after we left the surgical center, and my mom spent the day with me. We had a lot of laughs with me attempting to get out of the car with my crutches! I've since gotten the hang of them.

Yesterday I slept most of the day. When I woke up, I was really sore again, and have been since. I think whatever they gave me at the surgical center has now completely left my system, and I have to take it really easy. It's OK though. I had no idea what to expect, and I know my recovery will take some time, but I'm glad I had the surgery. Plus, the pain meds do help and put me right to sleep which is good.

Yesterday, my mother-in-law sent me a Edible Bouquet, and it is delicious! Also, I found out I won Barefoot in the Park's Elizabeth McKay giveaway! Can you even think of anything else that would cheer me up more? I've been on cloud nine all day! This top will be the perfect addition to my Spring wardrobe and perfect for any upcoming political events! It's a very versatile piece. I really love Elizabeth McKay's clothes. I've been eyeing the B to B Dress for some time. I'd love to buy it for my college roommate's Rehearsal Dinner this Fall. I'm in her wedding, and I think this dress would be perfect for an October event. Plus, I once saw a photo of a young Jacqueline Kennedy (may have been before she married Jack, actually) in a very similar dress. I love the low cut back, a little sexy, but so understated, which is my style. I like unexpected, not overt sexiness.

I look forward to reading all your blogs over the next two weeks while I'm at home recuperating!

Working

2011-02-02T10:33:00.002-05:00

Weeeellllll, 2 feet we did not get. It snowed, but it wasn't even nearly as bad as predicted. I decided to brave it, and I made it into work without incident today. The roads were almost abandoned. A little eerie really. We've had zero patrons today in my department. That might come as a surprise because we're the only ~~idiots~~ library open today.......

Oh well, I'll have that vacation day for when I take a vacation and escape this weather!

I was happy to open my email this morning to find that the pillow shams I ordered from Pottery Barn have shipped! They were originally back ordered until April. Can't wait to see how the bedding looks all together!

And now we wait....

2011-02-01T17:28:00.004-05:00

At around 7:00pm tonight, we are supposedly getting hit with a freaking huge blizzard. Some weather reports have said up to 24 inches.......

Have I mentioned that I hate snow?!?!?!?!?!?!?And the library where I work isn't closing. The whole damn city is closing, but not my library..... And apparently I'm required to use a vacation day or drive in 2 feet of snow? I guess vacation day it is. I need to move out of this state.

Bedding Ordered

2011-01-28T10:57:00.001-05:00

We decided on the Birkeland series from Ikea for our new guest room furniture.

Photo CreditI love it! It was a ton of work for B to put it all together (thanks babe!), but we are both so happy with how it looks in the room. Plus, I slept in the bed the night before last, because someone was snoring really loudly....

I wasn't sure about bedding for my "nautical" room. I have been browsing, and I finally decided to use $75 worth of gift cards I had from Pottery Barn, and ordered an ivory duvet cover and shams. The "white sale" was going on, so the monogramming was complimentary. After it was all said and done, I only paid around $67, which I think is quite a steal! I ordered the bedding in ivory instead of pure white, because though the furniture looks to be pure white, it's actually closer to ivory. In our master bedroom, I bought ivory bedding from Crate & Barrel. When I held it up to the new furniture, it matched beautifully. I really hope I made the right choice here! As I mentioned before, I'm not really very confidant in my decorating skills. This is a learning experience, and I'm trying to enjoy myself. I'm following my intuition.

We chose monogram style 11 in navy thread. Photo Credit

The duvet has shipped, but the shams are scheduled to arrive in April.

Next, I'll start shopping for accessories- lamps, tissue box cover, waste basket, artwork (though, I already have two really neat things to hang), and a mirror to go over the dresser. I'd love a seashell mirror....I might need to get "crafty"....I'm really expanding my horizons!

Need some advice

2011-01-28T09:46:00.000-05:00

ADPATED TO ADD
Thank you all for your feedback! I honestly just didn't know what to think when I found these sites, but as the saying goes, if it's too good to be true....Once I'm recovered from my surgery, I'll head over to Saks and make my purchase! I'm so excited, and will realy savor the experience of purchasing this bag!

I've finally saved the money for this:Truth be told, I've had it saved for some months now, but haven't been able to pull the trigger. Not sure why, but now I'm ready. I think maybe because I'm having surgery or something. I know it'll keep me cheerful as I recover to know I'm buying this bag as soon as I can hobble into Saks.

My question is, when I was searching for this bag, I can across three sites selling the bag for much less then the LV store or Saks.

The sites:

Lazata (admits to small, unnoticeable flaw in the construction of the bag. I'm not a fan of that.)

ecrater

viasolace (appears legit?)

Has anyone ordered from any of these sites? What's you opinion on them? Like I said, I have saved the money, but if I can save a few hundred dollars, why not? Though it seems a little too good to be true....

Another JBKO Christmas Gift

2011-01-24T17:19:00.002-05:00

B also bought me this set of magnets for Christmas:
A JBKO "paper doll"!

I sent him the link to them months ago, and he remembered...only I don't recall where I found this to share with you! How cool though? I love the accessories.

A while back I ordered this magnet from cafepress, I think. It was my favorite JBKO quote. She sent this in a memo to her White House press secretary: "Minimum information given with maximum politeness". Words to live by....

50 Years Ago Today...Camelot Began

2011-01-20T11:48:00.001-05:00

"As we express our gratitude, we must never forget that the highest appreciation is not to utter words, but to live by them."
John F. Kennedy

"Don't let it be forgot, that once there was a spot, for one brief shining moment that was known as Camelot."

“I have been through a lot and I have suffered a great deal. But I have had lots of happy moments, as well. Every moment one lives is different from the other. The good, the bad, hardship, the joy, the tragedy, love, and happiness are all interwoven into one single, indescribable whole that is called life. You cannot separate the good from the bad. And perhaps there is no need to do so, either.” -JBKO

“Few women in history have captured the imagination the way she did, and it was Jackie’s courage and grace that have made her image an enduring one. She was an original, an icon.” -Valentino

Portrait of Camelot

2011-01-19T15:45:00.002-05:00

When my boss retired, she made a donation to the library, and each staff member was given a small budget to purchase a few books. The first book I selected is Portrait of Camelot, and it arrived today! It's a beautiful coffee table sized book, which includes a dvd of film footage, edited to accompany the book. I'm very excited to start reading this book, and to watch the dvd.

I also wanted to share with you a gift I received from my mother-in-law for Christmas. A few months ago, the Jacqueline Kennedy Jewelry Collection was featured on QVC. B and I watched, and I mentioned that I've always loved a certain brooch Jacqueline owned and is wearing in several pictures I've seen during the White House years. I had sort of forgotten all about it when I opened my Christmas gift from my mother-in-law: The website says:

"Jacqueline Kennedy purchased the original version of this crystal sunburst pin in June 1961 while in London. It's the symbol of King Louis XIV of France, the Sun King. On a side note, this was also Jackie's favorite historical era."

Here is a photo of her wearing it in her hair at a White House dinner with Andre Malaraux, the French minister for cultural affairs. He approved Jackie's plan for the Mona Lisa to travel to the United States for display in D.C. and New York:

I wore my version yesterday, and received many compliments. I wore it pinned at my hip to a black skirt with a black turtleneck. Some people thought it was part of a belt. The reproduction is just stunning, and very well made (in the USA, no less). I am thrilled to own such a beautiful piece of jewelry!

January + Versace = Perfection

2011-01-18T20:33:00.002-05:00

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I love her. And she was hands down the best dressed on Sunday. Remember this? Versace and January...a match made in heaven.

Nautical Guestroom

2011-01-17T18:21:00.001-05:00

I hate to admit it,but, I am not creative, and I'm no decorator. Many of the blogs I read often discuss decorating and interior design. Many of you show your own homes, and I'm always impressed with your skills. I've decided to try my hand at a little interior design in our home. We've decided to purchase new furniture for our guestroom. This is the last room in the house that needs to be "done". We've purchased new living room furniture, including bookcases and a great tv stand, bedroom furniture, and as of this weekend, the office is done. Our basement was re-finished last Winter, and my old sectional is down there. It looks great!

We have bought some furniture from IKEA over the years, including our current bedroom furniture. I like it a lot, but it's super modern. I'm not sure I'm going to always want such a modern look. We were at IKEA yesterday purchasing some final items for our office and we checked out the bedroom furniture. I found two sets for our guestroom, which I'd like to do in a nautical theme. I like the furniture because it's very classic, and I can imagine this being in our guestroom in this house and for years to come even in another house.

This bed and dresser are from the Hemnes Collection.

This set is from the Birkeland collection.
I'm not yet sure about an end table. I plan to check out Home Goods, Marshalls, and TJ Maxx. I also envision a cool wicker chest to store extra bedding.

Do you all agree that this furniture is pretty classic? I feel like I can build a nautical room around this furniture, but can also do something else with it in our next home. It will be used so infrequently, I doubt it'll ever be "worn out", as we so rarely have overnight guests...though I sometimes move into the guestroom when B snores too loudly! ;)

I searched a bit in google images and found some "inspiration":

A more tropical look:
And nautical: I love the simplicity of the last photo with the single initial and matching lamps. I also like the pretty pattern on the first two comforters.

This will a nice Spring project for me, and something to look forward to. If you follow me on twitter, you might already know that on February 4th, I'm having hip surgery. I have a labral tear, which I'm certain happened in ballet. The surgery is arthroscopic, so not too invasive, but I'll still be on bed rest for 2+ weeks, and using crutches for 3 weeks. Thankfully, I'll have my ipad and all you ladies to keep me company!

Boeuf Bourguignon Soup

2011-01-12T13:12:00.002-05:00

Sundays are typically my day to make a nice dinner. I like to try a new recipe, or I'll make some I know is a little too complicated for a weeknight meal. This past Sunday I made Martha Stewart's Boeuf Bourguignon Soup found in the December issue of Living Magazine.

Here's the recipe from Martha Stewart's website:

Ingredients
Serves 6
4 bone-in short ribs (2 inches thick, 2 pounds total)
Coarse salt and freshly ground pepper
2 teaspoons cornstarch
3 tablespoons extra-virgin olive oil
8 ounces white button mushrooms, quartered
3 carrots, 2 finely chopped and 1 cut into 3/4-inch cubes
3 shallots, minced
2 celery stalks, coarsely chopped
2 strips bacon, thinly sliced crosswise
1 tablespoon tomato paste
2 thyme sprigs
1 dried bay leaf
1 cup dry red wine, such as Burgundy
8 cups homemade or store-bought low-sodium beef stock
2 cups water

Herbed Egg Noodles, for serving
Horseradish Chive Bread, for serving

Directions
Season ribs with 1/2 teaspoon salt and some pepper. Coat with cornstarch. Heat oil in a large heavy pot (preferably enameled cast iron) over medium-high heat. Lightly brown ribs on all sides, about 6 minutes. Transfer to a plate.

Add mushrooms to pot. Cook until browned, about 4 minutes. Transfer to a bowl; add cubed carrot.

Add shallots, celery, bacon, and chopped carrots to pot. Cook until caramelized, about 6 minutes.

Stir in tomato paste.

Return ribs with plate juices to pot. Add thyme and bay leaf. Raise heat to high. Add wine. Cook, scraping up brown bits with a wooden spoon, until slightly reduced, about 1 minute. Add stock and water. Bring to a boil. Reduce heat, and simmer, partially covered, until beef is tender, 2 to 2 1/2 hours.

Remove ribs. Separate meat from bones; discard. Cut meat into bite-size pieces; return to pot.

Add reserved mushroom-carrot mixture. Bring to a simmer; cook until cubed carrots are tender. Season with salt. Ladle soup over bowls of herbed egg noodles and serve with horseradish chive bread on the side.

From Martha Stewart Living, December 2010

Helpful Hint:
Soup can be refrigerated for up to 2 days or frozen for up to 1 month. Thaw before using. Skim fat from top, and reheat.

We've both had the leftovers this week for lunch, and it reheats really well. I changed the recipe a little bit, using an onion instead of shallots, and Merlot wine, because that's what I had on hand. I don't drink red wine, so I wanted to use a bottle I was given as a gift. Next time, I'll probably buy a bottle of dry red to keep for cooking purposes.

Photo from Martha Stewart.

Black Swan....

2011-01-11T20:26:00.002-05:00

Many readers have asked how I liked Black Swan. I liked it. Sure it was really really dark, and kinda creepy, but I felt like it was worth seeing.

What I particularly liked was that Natalie Portman, and Mila Kunis for that matter, looked like real dancers. Nothing ruins a dance themed movie quicker than when the actor hasn't studied dance. It's amateur hour and it destroys the movie for me. I read somewhere that both actresses trained 8 hours a day for their roles, for something like 8 months? It certainly paid off, and both women carried themselves like real ballerinas. Granted, I know much of the dancing was a stand-in. If you see the movie, you'll be able to tell when the stand-in is dancing, or when the shot is just of the feet, it's a professional dancer, not Natalie Portman. However, she does do a lot of dancing, and even when she is posing, standing around, or stretching, she looked authentic.

I also liked the theme and story. Yes, it was dark and creepy, but it was a great idea for a movie. The costumes and set were gorgeous! What I didn't like was that I felt like the plot had holes, almost like something was missing. Maybe the movie was heavily edited, and with that editing, parts of the plot were missing. I just felt like there was more to it, and we, the audience were missing out. I also felt like some of the prevalent themes were forced down our throats. The main theme was that dancing the role of the Swan Queen is difficult because the same dancer is playing both the "virginal" white swan, as well as the "evil" black swan. This was a challenge for the lead character in the movie, and it was driven home to the audience. The other thing I noticed was that the lead character, Nina, was written to be really naive, annoyingly so, unrealistically so. I think this is because a man wrote the character....see it for yourself and let me know your thoughts!

I would recommend this movie with caution, because its really risqué, and that isn't for everyone. Also, it's not appropriate for anyone under the age of 18.....seriously, it's racy. My friend said there was a dad with his 9 year-old daughter (probably a little ballerina) in the show she saw. He probably had a lot of explaining to do on the car ride home, and is a pretty unprepared parent, considering all the advertising for this film pump it as a psychological/sexual thriller. So go with your adult friends, not with any minors, and not with your parent....that would be awkward!

Back to the Basics

2011-01-10T20:04:00.002-05:00

When I turned 10, my mom "taught" me how to take care of my skin. She has always used Pond's Cold Cream, followed by Pond's Moisturizing Cream. She bought me my own jars, and also a set to keep at my dad's house, and with that, I began to partake in the skincare ritual of both my mother and grandmother. A few years later, Clean & Clear became all the rage. I left the days of Pond's behind me, and ventured into "teenager-dom" - clean, clear, and under control. From there, I've used many different types of skin care products, most recently Cetaphil, which is great....in the Summer*.

In Winter, or at least when you live in ~~hell~~ the tundra, like me, your skin might get dry. I exercise 5-6 days a week, so I'm always trying to keep my face clean, and wash it often. This Winter, my skin has gotten really really dry. I had to switch from MAC Studiofix, to some other MAC foundation (name is escaping me, because I've used nothing but Studiofix for 10 years) that is more moisturizing. I've tried using extra moisturizer at night and in the morning. Nothing has helped.

I was at Target this weekend, and it hit me....Pond's! My mother has beautiful skin, and she looks much younger than her 35 years, wink wink. So I bought the two Pond's products I never should have abandoned all those years ago:

My skin is already looking and feeling better! Not to mention, cold cream really removes makeup. There is no residue makeup left, and my skin is so soft and so moisturized! My mother has had it right all along! I should never have been swayed by Clean & Clear and their witty advertising, or Biore and those little pore strips! Oh no, Pond's is where it's at, ladies, and it's been working forever! Cold Cream was created in the 2nd Century! As Martha would say, "It's a good thing", and the two jars were under $10. Best $10 I've spent in a long time!

*My dermatologist and I both swear by Cetaphil! I love it, and when it's not so cold and dry outside and in my house, despite my humidifier, I'll certainly start using it again. However, the Pond's will remain in my cabinet for nighttime use, and if my skin starts to act up again.

*EDITED TO ADD*

Pond's did not sponsor this post. This is just my opinion on what I think is a great product. Pond's, if you'd like to sponsor this post with a giveaway, email me! ;)

Also, a reader asked how to use these creams, or at least how I use them. I start with the cold cream, rub in on my face and neck with my fingers, and leave it on a minute or two. Then is wipe it off with a tissue. You can also rinse it off with a warm wash cloth. I then lather on the moisturizing cream. During the day I use less and also use my Oil of Olay cream with SPF 15. At night I lather it on.

Black Swan

2011-01-07T14:13:00.002-05:00

B and I plan to see this movie tonight. I've been dying to see it for weeks! I know it's going to be creepy, and I typically avoid creepy films. But I'll see any movie about ballet, and Swan Lake is actually my favorite ballet. I really hope I have an opportunity to see it with B sometime. He enjoyed The Nutcracker and Romeo & Juliet very much. I'm sure he'll love San Lake as much as I do.

The lead role of Odette/Odile in Swan Lake is very special. In my opinion, dancing that role would be a career high. It's one of the most difficult roles. I wonder if the movie touches on this?

The "black swan" is Odile (played by the same dancer as Odette, the "white swan"), and she has the most amazing solo in the Second Act. She does 32 fouette turns, which is a famous (I think one of the most famous) coda in this ballet, and quite a feat!

From Wiki's Glossary of Ballet, the definition of "coda":

Coda
Literally "tail". As in music, a Coda is a passage which brings a movement or a separate piece to a conclusion.

In ballet, the coda is usually the "Finale", a set of dances known as the Grand Pas or Grand Pas d'action and brings almost all the dancers onto the stage. A particularly large or complex coda may be called a coda Grande. If a large group of dancers are concerned, the terms générale Coda or Grand générale coda may be used.

In ballet there are many famous codas, such as Le Corsaire Pas de Deux. Swan Lake has the Black Swan Pas de Deux where the dancer performs the famous 32 fouettes en tournant.

Check this out:

Another famous part of Swan Lake is the Pas de Quatre (dance of four). Below is a clip from ABT's Swam Lake:

For those of you who are non-dancers, or not fans of ballet, I hope you found this post and these clips interesting. If you've never seen Swan Lake and have the opportunity to ever do so, I highly recommend it! I hope I can say the same about Black Swan!

Home

2011-01-05T15:29:00.003-05:00

Oh blog, how I've missed you! I swear I had plans to blog up a storm while in Naples, but I was too busy spending time with my family and enjoying my vacation. Then, I came home, rang in the New Year, cleaned and organized our office (new furniture), helped my husband get rid of tons of old clothes (and subsequently buy some much needed items at the mall on Monday), purged my own closet, and all before I came back to work after two weeks off! The last two days have been spent catching up. And now, I can re-enter blogland. :)

You know the type of person who always remembers to bring their camera everywhere, and takes lots of photos which they post on facebook and their blog? I really wish I was that type of person. B bought me an awesome camera for my birthday, which I packed for Naples, and carried with me everywhere. I didn't, however, remember to use it all the often!

I did get a picture of some of the beautiful lights on 5th Avenue in Olde Naples. If you squint really hard, you might see my sister in this picture!

Beautiful, no?

I was lucky enough to be in Naples on December 29 to celebrate my dad's birthday. I made dinner for our family. Here he is with his cake. Publix made it. It was too nice out for me to spend the day baking a cake. Plus, my skills are good, but not THAT good. This cake was delicious!

New Year's Eve was really fun this year! My best friend and her husband hosted a party at Che*n Ch*ow (If ever in Birmingham, MI, eat here! Best Sushi in town!). I had more fun ringing in 2011 then any other year. An evening with good friends and food really makes for the best memories.

For some reason I look slightly tipsy in the closer picture. Reminds me of Clueless, a "full on Monet". Love that movie.

I hope you all enjoyed your Holiday Season as much as I did! I love Thanksgiving, Christmas, NYE, and both my parents' birthdays (Dec. 29th and Dec. 31st) so much, but I'm happy to have all the decorations packed away and the start of a new year! 2011 should be the best yet!

Merry Christmas

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From Naples!

My dad, sister and I are headed to the beach today! The weather has been beautiful all week, but it is forecasted to get a little chilly next week. I'm going to get as much sun as possible!

I'm going to use the chilly weather to shop and take lots of pictures! I want to give you girls a tour of my favorite place in the world!

Blessing to you and your families from me and mine! Cheers!!!!

A journey to the past.

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In High School, I was a Dame (the name for our dance team. The school's mascot is the Knights...lol). At Christmas, we always had a fun dance choreographed to holiday music to perform at the last basketball game before break. We also spent a day on a field trip where we visited a local nursing home as well as a special needs school. We performed at both locations. At the school, we'd visit some of the classrooms and talk with some of the students.

Here is a photo from my senior year, December 2000. How cute are these outfits?
I can't believe it's been 10 years! I remember posing for this picture like it was yesterday! Do you see me? I'm on Santa's left.

Michigan Winter

2010-12-17T13:28:00.002-05:00

In Michigan over the past few years, the state has run a number of ads encouraging people to explore "Pure Michigan". They're very nice, and always show the beautiful side of our state.

Here is a spoof that has recently popped up:
While all the real Pure Michigan ads I've seen show our state in the summer months, this ad might be a more acurate dipiction of what "pure" Michigan is all about....

Christmas

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I saw this over at Just a Happy Housewife. I think it's fun! Feel free to fill it out too!

Tag, you're it! A Christmas Meme

1. Hot Chocolate or apple cider?
Cider

2. Turkey or Ham?
Neither, but if I have to choose, I'd go with Honey Glazed Ham.

3. Do you get a fake or real-you-cut-it-yourself Christmas tree?
Fake. Next year, we plan to get a real one.

4. Decorations on the outside of your house?
Nope, we own a condo. Last year they put up lights, but not this year. :(

5. Snowball fights or sleddin’?
I'm too old for both.

6. Do you enjoy going downtown shopping?
Downtown in the town where is live, is so magical during Christmas, that I love shopping there! Downtown Detroit is a dump, and there is no shopping there.

7. Favorite Christmas song?
Carol of the Bells

8. How do you feel about Christmas movies?
I like them!

9. When is it too early to start listening to Christmas music?
I start the week of Thanksgiving. Any earlier is too early for me.

10. Stockings before or after presents?
After.

11. Go to someone else’s house or they come to you?
I'll be in Naples this year. I'll probably go to my Step-Mom's house, or the beach.

12. Do you read the Christmas Story? If so when?
I hear it at Mass.

13. What do you do after presents and dinner?
Help clean up, and maybe watch a movie? It's not really set in stone.

14. What is your favorite holiday smell?
Gingerbread.

15. Ice skating or walking around the mall?
Mall.

16. Do you open a present or presents on Christmas Eve, or wait until Christmas day?
Growing up we opened gifts Christmas Eve, then Santa's gifts were saved for the morning. In past years, Bobby and I have done one at night, then the rest Christmas morning. This year, he and I will open them Monday night, because I leave Tuesday for FL.

17. Favorite Christmas memory?
The year my grandpa "called" the police station to check on Santa sightings, and to make sure the "flying conditions" were good for the sleigh. he also told us he saw an elf on our neighbor's roof checking to see if the coast was clear for Santa. We lost him in September, and I hadn't really thought of that Christmas in years, until recently. He made it so magical.

18. Favorite Part about winter?
Escaping the cold, the first snow. I really only need the one....

19. Ever been kissed under mistletoe?
Yes.

My newest display

2010-12-16T11:11:00.002-05:00

Four times a year, I'm in charge of putting together a display in our department. This Winter, I decided to go for a "Non" Snow or Holiday theme. Instead, I did a play on the Cam*pbell's Soup ads, and made a huge Children's Library Soup Can, complete with a bowl of "hot" alphabet soup! Reading is M-MM good when it's cold and snowy outside!
My co-worker, Julie, tried to hide behind the computer, but I still caught her a little bit! Sorry this photo is a little glared, all the decorations are laminated, and I could get the reflection to go away when I took the picture.